“If we change the way we look at things the things we look at change”


Responding to @MajewskoSofia appreciation of our rainbow logo we offer the following.
Our logo represents planet Earth & the energetic radiance of all life, where colour Red (DO) is seen & heard at the base of the music scale (Do) & also indicates Acidic body conditions promoting Anger & Depression.

Rising through Orange (Ra), Yellow (Me) in the stomach region from the umbilici connection which sends out safety Warnings & Gut feelings.

Green radiates from our Chakras HEART (Fa) with Ph7 =

Balance neutral on chemistry charts, being the Equator of life at our Heart & with our Lungs is the Green belt rain forests of Earth’s lungs at the Equator.

From the Equator we move up to Blue, (So) at the Throat where air passing through the voice system at the larynx generating sound. Here our Thyroid controls energetic usage, (So) we scream or remain silent. (Should we hold back too much by not expressing emotional energy one may readily become emotionally constipated, not good or recommended.)
The higher frequency Indigo (La) is the Pineal gland other wise known as the 3rd eye (some times referred to as the key stone the builders forgot) which was buried beneath, with Pharaohs army when the red sea which Moses had metaphorically opened with his Rod closed over encasing the entire Central nervous system within our Crown (Te)
Here at the higher level of visibility  we see Violet (Te) the radiance of Alkalinity, living in this state of mind may see one behave in a Manic state. Unstable body chemistry therefore may swing from Mania (Te) to Depression (Do)

Completely our of harmony with one’s self.

Unfortunately too many wounded damaged souls are treated with Anti depressant medication with the best intentions to return patients to a healthy mental balance. Unfortunately in too many instances it matter not, how many times you drench your horse or what you drench him/her with Frogunless you remove the stone from the frog in his/her foot he/she will remain lame.

So within our Counselling logo & our Counselling work being aware that there is a whole world of sensitive energy from which we discover explanations & meaning for good health to calm the body’s waters & support the words :

“If we change the way we look at things                     The things we look at change.”

In Body sensitive psychotherapy We only use love to help others help themselves discover their own stones within, stoney habitual mental blockages, which obstructs natures healing divinity within. Exactly as Moses did when he led his people from the ravages of Pharaoh’s materialistic world of imprisoned slavery to the promise land of self freedom.
Here is an interesting visual to show some of this energy which is available to all of us, “If we are prepared to change the way we look at things”.

For Counselling call 02 93877752 or Mob 0412 777303 Email Rod or Carol  bjcounselling@massagefloat.com.au

Now as Ducks do I’ll head on back to the Pond & calm some disturbed water.





Amidst all the confusion &  controversy around the media challenging Senator Conroy’s attempts to introduce legislation about the way Rupert, Gina & Kerry Stokes are using their economic power & pressure to dominate journalists and hence the concentration of economic forces now brought to light by the introduction of the NBN digitally bringing with it the death of print media.

As we know Rupert desperately wants to hold the NBN fibre optic connection out of our house & businesses so he can still bleed the public dollars from the node up the road with his Foxtel & News empire influence & control, whilst he screws the advertising world & force feeds the public with commercials they do not want to see, especially the wicked promotion of gambling played to all ages during sport programs.

All is good with the NBN, its happening & being installed thanks to Rob Oakeshott & Tony Windsor negotiating this amazing benefit for constituents beyond Sydney Newcastle & Wollongong (in short NSW). Remember Bradfield’s Harbour bridge, the state & national rail network or Parliament house Canberra were all too big, unnecessary & all cost “motzas” at the time of construction.
In this instance Rupert has Abbott “up his trousers leg” so to speak & this is why Abbott says he will save money &  interfere with or even roll back some parts of the NBN in so doing he is  denying the people direct connection to the world where we will have free press without being filtered by Rupert”s mob when the fibre is connected to our houses & businesses.

Well Australia does not need a PM who will be a puppet to the US dictator Rupert or his in house parliamentary director of Abbott (remember after all Murdoch renounced his Australian citizenship to become American.) Yes this US citizen Rupert has played his game through England & had shut down a few of his rags, after his mobster/gangster journalists entourage finished hacking the phone of murdered  Milly Dowler …….then Rupert tried his hardest to roll Barack Obama in the USA & now you see Rupert, with vested interest support from Gina, & Kerry engaging identical Big Brother tactics here in Australia in dishonestly driving Abbott’s campaign by directing journalists with editorial policy……..journalists who like Abbott are now selling their arse ….because they have kids & a mortgage or rent to pay also & have basically sold their journalistic ethics to the highest bidder.

Mean time hospitals are closing down beds & our prisons are over full.

Last man standing wins the fight eh!.

Well same clever logic applies when the shark eats the last fish. Or the last tree was felled on Easter Island.

Of course that maybe so if you believe that Virginity & Bombs have something in common.ImageWhere or where are we going with all this?

You maybe assured that as a Councellor & Psychotherapist I experience daily situations & events of ever increasing frequency of  violence, anger, depression, anxiety, with panic attacks, relationship break down & general victims of trauma & abuse.

Why would this be?

I believe it is principally due to unresolved & unattended childhood trauma, which establishes an “accent of behaviour” & is left brewing & fermenting as a debilitating psychological time bomb in this confusing abusive society which is being modeled by the hideous dishonest behaviour of our parliamentary representatives where the conduct of some Parliamentary & their entourage of side kicks play the game of intimidation with vile verbal harassment. Such example provides permission & adds to the deliberately created parliamentary confusion to then become a social manifestation in volcanic proportions of outrage, drunken violence, & gang & racial conduct. Street behaviour easily spotted in road rage incidents.

Known avoidance behaviour of excessive alcohol, aggression, sex, drugs & especially in poker machine gambling where flashing lights, music drinks, & private sense of isolation, specifically entice & psychologically capture those who try to avoid their endless aching scarred need by becoming even further social disconnection when their money & all available loans & credit expire. All lost, eventually alone & entirely desperate & homeless.

If you would like to have a confidential Counselling session or a gentle relaxing

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Call 93877355 or Email info@massagefloat.com.au

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For Counselling & Psychotherapy Phone 93877752  Mob 0412 777303               Email   bjcounselling@massagefloat.com.au


Extract from 60 Minutes with Abbott & Liz Hayes


Peter Robert Garrett AM MP is an Australian musician, environmentalist, activist and politician. Garrett was lead singer of the rock band Midnight Oil from 1973 until its disbanding in 2002.

In the full knowledge that Peter Garrett’s  Mother was incinerated in their family home Tony Abbott resorted to the lowest of the low by viciously & dishonestly attacking Peter Garrett in the parliament by using the most vile accusations in a wicked & scandalous attack on the Minister after the unfortunate death of some installers of ceiling insulation in a programme designed to conserve energy and employ hundreds.

Here below is a part extract of Liz Hayes 60 Minute interview with Tony Abbott if you ever need to be convinced that Abbott deliberately lies just view the above link from the parliament where the attack dog reveals the Tony that we all know and will not trust.

As Liz suggest he can loose the election & Australia really does need Abbott out of Canberra & out of our lives completely. Displaying such psychopathic behaviour Abbott is a danger to himself and all of Australia & Australians.

Should you doubt this just check the company he keeps when he is not dining with Rupert Murdoch’s mob.:

Abbott & Hadley Cut

LIZ HAYES: Jay Leno, the comedian in America, said that “politics is show business for ugly people”.

TONY ABBOTT: Yeah – that’s right.

LIZ HAYES: You think so?

TONY ABBOTT: Well, it’s more than show business.

TONY ABBOTT IN PARLIAMENT: These are people’s lives at stake and you show no remorse, you show no concern, and you show no urgency about anything except saving your own hide.

LIZ HAYES: In the last few weeks, Tony Abbott has relentlessly attacked the Government’s failed insulation program, which cost the lives of four people.

TONY ABBOTT IN PARLIAMENT: He’s not worthy of their continued confidence.

LIZ HAYES: You’ve hounded Peter Garrett almost to the grave. When you’re deciding on that strategy do you ever take into account the human being?

TONY ABBOTT: You try to. I don’t think Peter Garrett is a bad man. I just think in this very important respect he’s been a bad minister

LIZ HAYES: I understand that, but when you’re determining your strategy, you know that Peter Garrett’s mother died in a house fire yet you get into Parliament and you say, “You have no remorse!” You know that he must.

TONY ABBOTT: But he hasn’t shown it. That’s the problem.

LIZ HAYES: Could you see not the hurt in his face?

TONY ABBOTT: In his heart, I dare say he has been tortured, but politicians have to be judged on what they say and on what they do, not what may be going on in their guts.

LIZ HAYES: Tony Abbott has never stepped back from a fight. He was a champion boxer at Oxford University. For a short time he trained to be a priest and dabbled in journalism before being elected to Parliament. But his life’s greatest challenge – to be prime minister – lies ahead. GINA IN A Rickshaw

Yup lies ahead & lots of lies at that.

His body language, mental paralysis  & darting tongue are dead set give away’s of his dangerous spiteful reptilian ancestors.



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What is a complex trauma?io With thanks to works from http://www.natal.org.il/english/?CategoryID=233 Complex trauma is a type of trauma that occurs repeatedly, cumulatively and even increases over time. In a family context, a conspicuous example of complex trauma is ongoing (physical … Continue reading

Devoid of wise adult mentors champions often run a muck.


On the eve of Clover Moore and Malcolm Turnbull’s meeting about cleaning up the Kings Cross I restate earlier writings about this deadly serious matter which is manifesting across the city, state and nation. Readily evidenced in road rage, street thuggery, to violent physical assaults upon the operators of our public transport system.
Displaying such blatant ignorance to suggest that the non running of public transport in late evening early mornings is sheer and utter baloney regardless of how thin one slices it, it remains baloney.
After Counselling alcoholics, gamblers, particularly problem gambling and compulsive behaviour clients for the past 15 years I see virtually no progress to these very sad social indictments being knowingly and deliberately thrust into and upon the community by the evil merchants perpetrating abuse veiled beneath and behind the shroud of entertainment.
Gambling and alcohol lobbies are culpable organisations festered with slothful individuals who benefit from the pain and loss of psychologically wounded people, from whom they take massive financial benefits from the very flesh and blood of these traumatised individuals who are seldom if ever supplied the essential therapy to attend to the inborn psychological turmoil from which the poor souls find refuge in alcohol and gambling, especially poker machines.

If advertising did not sell cars and drinks and hamburgers then Toyota, Coke,  McDonalds, Pizza Hut, KFC, Woolworths Coles & Co would not advertise would they?

Just look at the Clubs deceitful advertising claim about them being part of the solution (to the problem they created) with improved self exclusion programs. Excuse us for seeking your attention but when one already is infected by the HIV virus no amount of exclusion will treat the patient. Identical situation for the treatment of psychological traumatised gamblers who have been snared by the insidious sensory penetration of electronic stimuli activating false hope.
Therefore of the two vices we see GAMBLING is the most wicked and destructive avenue because it is condoned as acceptable by governments who have themselves become dependent upon the taxes there to be gleaned. A gambler may spend all day and night at their vice and walk out into the street “appearing “ to be sober, mean while innocent families, children and society as a whole are penalised. Where as if a person spends the day drinking they will generally fall over or go to sleep.

STOP PRESS : August 6. 2012. Clubs NSW & Clubs Australia do a deal to get the Salvation Army to roll the wheels to pretentiously trial having a Chaplin present in the Pokie dens of the clubs. Almost as if we have turned full circle and the money changers have invited Jesus back into the temple. This reeks.

Of course anger and testosterone does often swell more than the ego of the dumbed down minds, and here is where the responsible service and supervision of alcohol and gambling is not being attended to by the licensee who repeatedly turn blind eyes to their already influenced victims.

For a moment consider the tobacco industries influence in sport, when evidence of smoking damaging health was proven and repeatedly denied, we had tobacco companies pumping sport eg The Winfield Cup in rugby league and any where else they could possibly raise a bill board.
With the outing of tobacco we saw the same criminal minds and desperate organisations capture the joy of youthful exuberance with alcohol, through the addictive patronage of the Toohey’s Cup for under 21s, and Carlton United as major sponsors of rugby’s Queensland Reds and promoting Bundaburg Rum as “the spirit of rugby league”.
Now in 2012 we cannot attend or view a game of football without being bombarded with prices from the board, how to lay a bet, on line, over the phone, or by text from your mobile.
Look at Penrith’s “Have a Bet stadium”, South Sydney club sponsorship, and where latest up to the minute prices have actually become part of the callers “fillers” for which we presume there would be “cash for comment” back handers paid to some willing behind the scenes hand a la the Jones-Laws sagas which led to significant fines being issued by the Federal Court for repetitive breeches of the Broadcasting Services Act 1992.
You see from my comments I am incensed by the pretensive behaviour of our law makers, politician, police, and sports corporate executives who choose to close their eyes to the real problems within our society.
 For these supposed authorities to then denigrate and destroy the occasional “starring” or identified individual such as Sonny Bill Williams, Willie Mason, Ben Cousins, Andrew Johns, Tim Smith, Bret Stewart, Benji Marshall, Todd Carney, and hosts of other well known business men and sporting individuals through out the world including the late Kerry Packer, Bill Clinton, Rupert Murdoch, Tiger Woods, Greg Norman, and even John Singleton to name just a few, is utterly wrong and more evil than any behaviour mis-demeanor any of these individuals may ever commit.
Deliberate wickedness, dishonesty on behalf of the “minders” of society is unconscionable, culpable and derelict behaviour of the first order and simply must stop.
We need to deal with the dead, the wounded and dying before any more shots are fired. Then we need to review just what makes these super champions of sport and business tick.

Todd Carney give up as lost and unloved  by the Sydney Roosters

Proving to be a champion as always now playing for NSW & Cronulla

Whilst these named sporting champions concentrate their attention on their sport or business talent they are empowered, not at all aware or conscious of any psychological disturbance. However when their gaming and working days are over their psyche is aggravated by an unidentified dis-ease, they sense an “empty aching need” (an unidentified psychological disturbance to be gratified) so they obsessively distract themselves through avoidance activities such as golf, alcohol, drugs, gamble, live racing, fancy cars, TV, computer games, face book, twitter, internet pornography, wives and sex too.
 Whilst ever mentally occupied and engaged by such “pleasures” they avoid sensing the burning emptiness within.
Hence many of these highly competitive, starring individuals can never get enough of their medicine to adequately satisfy that endless aching need.
 Maybe because that sense leaves them somehow “never feeling good enough”, lying, buried deep within the unconscious of the psyche.
This unconscious founding, is an unidentified psychological “hitch hiker” which evolves with time to become virtually an “accent of behaviour”, established within the being of the individual as a consequence of some child hood wounding absorbed into schemas’ survival patterns as a consequence from any of multiple avenues of early life insecurity.
Devoid of secure adult mentors champions often run a muck.
Such sense of insecurity maybe transferred and established in the womb, in premature or difficult birth, from instinctual maternal separation, domestic or school yard intimidation, abuse, abandonment, exposure to or sensing violence, or outright cultural and emotional ignorance and neglect.
Vigilant awareness born from this sense of stress, or possible failure becomes a powerful motivator forever seeking attention.
It is in avoiding this disease (sense of stress) through concentrating on their special sport that most champions rise to the height of sporting brilliance during their early adult years.
Devoid of mature adult mentors these champions occasionally run amuck to have their identity torn apart by the ever willing critics and festering media moguls. The super rich manage the media as we know only too well.
Dis-ease (negative inborn stress) ultimately becomes disease, so society in ignorance labels these individuals as champions when their team is winning or drug addicts, gamblers, alcoholics or sex addicts depending on the media blaze of the day when life runs a muck.
Repeat offenders will be found cast out, filling the prison the hospital or cemeteries for those wounded champions prematurely left behind by this derelict society.
As we see in todays society with politicians directing the highly publicised, intermittent foray into “cleaning up the crosses” of wounded souls, arresting violent drunken louts yet they forever do nothing to actually address or counsel the child born trauma of these intoxicated wasted individuals.
Q. Does the law have sufficient care and courage to rein in the zealots of alcohol and the purveyors gambling casino culture?
A. Not likely too much money at stake there.
This certainly does pose a question for political consideration:
If one cannot safely operate a motor vehicle with a blood alcohol reading in excess of .05% alcohol then why would that responsibility not also apply to decisions about responsible gambling.
By turning a blind eye to the alcohol and gambling lobby it is obvious that politicians choose to ignore this club of gangsters and so just as the legend of yore taught us, the King still has has no clothes and the band plays Waltz in Matilda as the wounded soldiers and champions returned from war.
We build more hospitals, we build more jails, but we do absolutely nothing sincere about the TOXIC UNSUSTAINABLE psychological pollution of endless alcohol and gambling outlets destroying our society and taking over family lounge rooms and sporting stadiums.

A war hero who played high stakes stopping Sydney’s traffic.

No wonder veteran SAS Dad Michael Fox, recently had the courage to climb the Sydney harbour bridge because he desperately needed an opportunity to be heard and expose the fools of bureaucracy and their choking law.
He obviously is another champion who has never been understood.
Yes and like saviors before Michael and Todd Carney the mob wants to lynch them both for their effort.
If you would like to speak with me I would be happy to meet you and provide constructive avenues to recovery.

At Bondi Junction Counselling Service we believe that:
“when we can change the way we look at things
the things we look at change.”
Rod McClure JP

Bondi Junction Counselling Service

Ph 93877752