Nature has no symbiotic association with money or credit.

    “Natural Balance at the Green Zone of all Equators”.
To this pH-Duck everything of nature is as it should be, real. Anything that man interferes with or alters is no longer natural, this definitely and most especially relates to deliberate genetic manipulation and modification of all of natures species.
Each species has within it the natural genetic transference disposition and acceptance requirements and DNA to fertilise and regenerate the species. Certainly across time there maybe a natural cross fertilisation of and progressive evolution of specific characteristics of merging evolving species, after all this is within the natural capacity for the miracle of life which we consider has evolved to delivered man before he devolved into today’s walking talking numeric symbol of materialism. zombiesEach species has within it the natural genetic transference and acceptance of DNA to fertilise and regenerate the species. With time there maybe a natural cross fertilisation of and progressive evolution of specific characteristics of merging species, after all this is within the natural capacity for the miracle of life.
pH-Duck is a sensitive male human being who was raised principally in desert country amidst natures elements and all creatures great and small. From this basis and understanding in natural balance he understands and cares passionately about the welfare of people.
Being raised on desert earth amidst some mallee, spinaphex and porcupine, where occasional wild fires and regular land and man perishing droughts were our great predator. Rain was very infrequent, and wild tempered dust storms at times so intense they buried midday light. In such arid country water is essential for the survival of all living creatures.

Here in this environment working Australian creatures and mankind actually adapt was to co-exist symbiotically. In this place dishonesty, cheats, uninvited, pretenders and liars of any species are short lived. Units of measurement, work and production are real and tangable. Measured by the seed, speed, kilogram, kilometer, millimeter, liter, or in the old scale language of species, pounds, miles, and  gallons. The only banks in nature are built by moving sand or carved in time by rivers. Nature has no symbiotic association with money or credit. Owing to and considering this accepted informative foundation of belief in nature I have forever struggled with the dishonest charlatens and invaders who have kidnapped people and their children since the invention of manipulative air bubble generating machines of waterless credit such as futures traders, land sales to overseas investors and financial interest, which to my mind are mostly imagined negative numbers hoped for charge and benefits gambled against seasons before they arrive. When we grew and sold wool the grazier was paid by kg weight, when we grew wheat we were paid by the tonne, so when the nation sells coal, iron ore, aluminum bauxite, etc who is getting paid and where is the money going I ask?

Nature has no credit cards or loans. Creatures of the land know water is such a precious resource they have evolved accordingly and also developed ways to preserve food and water, man does this by building dams or sinking bores to tide him over for the dry times, life’s survival is severely limited without water.

In Water HoleWhen creatures and man find ways to covert essential needs such as water and precious essential resources others naturally will have to perish, going without, so the Bengal tiger learns to conserve hunting energy by lying right in the water hole. Whilst I have absolute respect for nature, and especially for the big cats I have absolutely no respect at all for the Big Cats of corporate business, insurance or bankers who principally thrive as blood sucking parasites on the good will and intention of their fellow species. Man has devolved to this dreadful self consuming place. As a society we have now degenerated to arrive back to the time of Ouroboros. Like Cronus we are devouring our own children so now all mature adult men have the responsibility of looking after and bringing to adult hood the lost children in our Siblings Society.Breakfast with GodRightfully and proudly claiming the title of an “early senior“ I most certainly know and definitely understand why my cellular being and my life path has always led me and my imagination, as with Michael Leunig, to metaphorically understand and appreciate the life and behaviour of a friendly balanced floating duck.

Yes the Duck can fly in the air, walk on and graze the park, float and balance effortlessly on the pond and like man dive deep into the waters of our body to avoid dealing with our stress, lack of safety and accumulated discomfort. So Ducks are ideal characters to depict a help explain this story about body feelings with relation to our internal chemistry and its influence on neural communication.
Ph & H2OFor new readers I offer again previous mention of the pH part of this Duck is to disrespectfully borrow the Doctorate title of PhD with specific reference to our energetic spirit of life itself which reflects just how we feel as our spirit flies high to our head as a rush of ALKALINE chemistry excites us at pH10 Yes when we are excited and experience that euphoric delight of short term mania. Longer term over dosing and drugs may definitely become a manic problem.

Allowing our energetic sense (spirit) to float freely on the Pond in balance of pH7 is the place for our Spirit rest, to be within our waters at our Heart here we feel LOVE, at Peace within our self and with others. As with the EQUATOR of planet earthpH7 is green, where the trees grow and where the farmer grows his best crops.

When the going gets tough we begin to feel the load as the chemistry heads down south. Here we tend to hear and sense the energy of aggravation, early “burn out” signals begin to sets in, which if not addressed become disease, colloquially expressed as being  “Pissed Off”, tired with the world and the work place around us as we head into the Acidic chemistry of pH3 which ultimately leads to a debilitating state regularly treated by the academically qualified but worldly inexperienced “psycho Quack and medico’s” as Depression, a condition for which, too often, they try to over ride by prescribing supposed Anti depressant medication whilst ignoring “the drought in the essential need environment“ which has led to the run down of health. See here now that our logo is the microcosmic reflection of us and planet earth.   cropped-logosmaller.jpg

Admittedly there are times when medication is valuable and even essential however, in our modern insatiable corporate driven world of ever increasing demand and monitored expectations for high performance for each individual’s life which is basically starving for simple essential needs of basic shelter, freedom from threat, and some love acceptance and sense of belonging. Today most people struggle for weekly or even daily survival, living like the animals in hand to mouth fashion whilst under the endless oppression and denial of essential gratification of human needs.
As body sensitive Hakomi Counsellors & Psychotherapists we take a holistic view to understand why our clients are struggling to understand the reasons their life is so heavy and they feel so down. As experienced life and body sensitive therapists we can see why Floating back to the pond just happens naturally with recognition for self release from all the reeds and ties that bind us to that suffocating, breath taking sense of stifled freedom, depression, anger, sadness, mental confusion and associated anxiety.Little Ducks hit the wall
Come learn to Float naturally with these little pH-Ducks,  its lots of fun and we are very serious and sincerely care about the people who come to us seeking help and guidance when life gets them down in the dumps. See the website links below for further details.
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How do you know you’re a narcissist ?

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Narcissism is broadly defined as an exaggerated, yet fragile self-concept of one’s importance and influence. Most of the work on narcissism to date has explored the negative implications of the phenomenon for individual-level functioning and leadership. However, prior research also indicates that many chief executive officers who are perceived as narcissistic lead highly successful companies.
How might this be so?
ImageOur world is progressively suffocating, now being led by undeveloped siblings, a flock oft highly pretentious corporate individuals, they are the ultimate nightmare as parents & guardians, now totally out of touch, following the unintentional conditioning away from natural psychological & environmental cognitive evolution by the insanity of endless growth & fierce corporate competition over the past 60 years as electronic technology has moved faster than the overall capacity of fellow man ability to maintain cognitive growth.Families have broken down, single & shattered families pretend to play “happy families” but the children know, kids cannot be fooled they take everything on board & learn just what they need to do to stay safe, so we conform, after all this is how we learn to speak the language of that which we are exposed, whilst absorbing all the other forms of modeled behaviour.

In like manner as a society we have been progressively led to ravenous competition, by advertising played through & feeding into the electronic media, carried into ever home & school by commercial television which thrives on leading its way up the market by indoctrinating the populous to believe in self nourishment avoidance by adorning themselves with endless quantities of “silk, gold, trinkets” magic forms of sugar & emotional numbing electronic gadgets which directly intercept the senses, poker machines, mobile phones, & Facebook &  Twitter etc.

Such homage of false idolatry to these images progressive leads to cognitive & social devolution with ever increasing degrees of psychopathic insanity as a consequence of endlessly chasing the psychological sense of ravenous inadequacy, obesity &  the dis-ease of attempted self nourishment through Insatiable compulsive occupation.

These people have been inflicted with the burden of never feeling they are sufficient, never perfect enough. Simply never enough.

They are incapable of playing the parent role. Their children become chess pieces in a high stakes game. They don’t give a damn about how their small child is responding to them as long as the parent is in complete control of them.
Some of these sociopaths discard and ignore their children, sending them off to full time nannies, boarding schools and military schools as early as possible.
They want nothing to do with children other than using them to build up their image of a great Father. In some cases these sociopaths choose a favored child that is groomed to become a part of his echo of perfection and power—this child becomes a strong source of narcissistic supply.
The sociopath has huge bragging rights about the high achieving child he has created.
Children who are not chosen for these special roles are thrown away, psychologically imprisoned, treated with extreme cruelty. If his children are not performing at the level he insists. Some sociopath parents abandon the entire family and re-constitute themselves with a new adoring spouse who has no clue about this form of psychopathology. See Australian Story A Complicated Life: Kerry Packer – Pt 2 where Kerry’s Father was seen to be cruel, abusive, bad tempered, yet Kerry thought he only got what he deserved as he struggled for his Fathers approval until his own death.
Dr Frank Yeomans a leading US expert on Narcissistic Personality Disorder pointed out that we commonly think narcissists are egotistical and stuck up, basically that they are nasty people. And it is true that narcissists can be entitled, arrogant, condescending, devaluing, often exploitative and sadistic.
So, according to Dr. Yeomans there’s more to narcissism than just being plain nasty.
There is a profound underlying problem that causes severe difficulties.
How do you know you’re a narcissist?
“If you feel empty and like you’re never good enough, and your social relationships turn sour periodically, and you can’t develop true intimacy.” answers Dr. Yeomans.

 ImageSimilarly our tender young “Duckling Selves” floating on life’s pond where we might be all ‘Chirpy & Smiling’ up top, whilst being super busy maintaining inner sense of balance with plenty happening in the waters of our body beneath the “feathers” & our protective human safety rail of psychological armour.
Sounds like a good time to seek Counselling treatment and deal with what’s underneath.

Always welcome & safe with us.

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CLEANING UP THE HEADLINES

Dear Senator Conroy & others who care,
ImageThank you many fold for your attempts to challenge the modern day Mafia of media, gambling, alcohol & their corrupting social influences.

Senators surely there must be adherence to ethical expectations within the media to self censure. We are told there is self censorship, to what degree?
We do know of, understand & despise the unbalanced bias drive by & thru the tentacles of the Murdoch octopus repeatedly plastering his poisonous ink across our society for his free market ideology as exposed at the recent Melbourne anniversary gathering of the Institute of Public Affairs, attended by Gina Rinehart, George Pell, Tony Abbott & others.

A recent headline about slitting throats in the Sydney Daily TelegraphDaily_Telegraph_29_5_2013 is nothing less than an act of incitement which I consider is probably a indictable offense within our inherent common law.

Please Senators see if there is an avenue, or if we as a Nation are able & prepared to defend our constitutional, supposed “freedom of the press” to prosecute this octopus & protect our people from the plagues of his intentions & vile splattered journalistic ink as he aims to incite divisive hatred as this evidenced, by this insidious racially bigoted article.

In so doing adding terror & racial vilification with the continuation of those contemptible headlines being played so hard by Tony Abbott’s Stop the Boats & illegal immigration, a campaign of absolute dishonesty & with that the media’s repeated derogation of the Prime Minister & your fellow cabinet colleagues.

Never in history has society been repeatedly doused with such blatant negativity to now becoming so hyper vigilant, following the accumulation of terror from 9/11, GFC, middle east & Afghanistan war, war, war, international debt reports, dishonest & distorted financial manipulation, & racial violence now with actual symbolic street assassinations fueling, with horrendous sensationalism at the hand of media fanning & promotion.
Further evidence of this social wounding is within the Eddie McGuire, Adam Goode remark activating sensitivity to a silly, unintentional, loose, (foolish for Eddie), statement. Here alone the heightened degree of social pressure is certainly evident.
We are almost back to the Commo under every bed syndrome.
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We despise Rupert Murdoch’s ideology more than we dislike Tom Waterhouse both have become so intrusive, invasive, so unwelcome, both individuals are a blight on “Our Freedom” & as you see Tony Abbott is forever ‘on his bike’ in here too.
Our cups of tolerance are overflowing, spewing out to wicked street & life threatening suburban violence to bombings, & fundamental religious murders.
Ever has been so, however such repetitive unnecessary media promotion is Murdoch’s exposed proven intention to divide & so rule.
Cut to the bone, leave no flesh. In other words let the low classes starve by living on boiled bones.

What’s more Murdoch has renounced his Australian citizenship, supposedly renounced his Australian citizen rights for a greater slice of American money & power.

Then in identical bone cutting fashion he has behaved  identically & adopted the same practice in his own private life where he has done the same thing by cutting off two Mothers of his children. Well  that is two Mothers to date.

His behaviour is that of an insatiable narcissistic psychopath driven by & entirely oblivious to the unconscious desire to gain his Fathers acceptance, much the case for Kerry & now James Packer. For these wounded ones nothing is ever enough to gratify the endless aching need after being torn from or dysfunctional infant emotional bonding.
Well like Kerry Packer supposedly said & Murdoch & the rest of us will eventually discover that “there is nothing on the other side” well nothing there for the buying or taking regardless of accumulated billions, heard it said, “there are no pockets in a shroud”.

Then again maybe Kerry would like to dispute his original call because on that occasion he didn’t stay out of the game for long enough, however considering he has been rather quiet since his last visit to the after life you might hear his challenge still, that is if any one is listening. Whilst left with an aching heart James Packer rolls on driven by the self belief that he to must complete the duties expected of him so that he never disappoints his Father, so the sins of the Father are transferred for many generations.

Rupert on the other hand might also like to enjoy some mental silence here on earth & enjoy his billions & his children & Grand children while he still has some life.

For mine the best of heaven is here with us right now on earth & being satisfied with our lot is a joyous satisfying sense of self actualization.
I’m fine just being enough as I am, thanks Rupert.

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Down on his Luck

Little Tommy Waterhouse takes a tumble,

Oh dear!

Think it probably was due to his highly unwelcome inflated ego. Tom be nimbleMore JoyousMother Gai gets hurt & feels the pain (not) of Little Tommy’s fall.

Karma or nature?

“Straight from the horses mouth.”

Classic example of gambling insanity, insanity in the scale  of a “Monsanto Kind set”.
Irrationally driven by egotistic greed, immaturity & culpable ignorance.
Devoid of any sensitivity of nature which is completely ignored because as a society we refuse to give time to understand natures brilliance, not understood so “they” say.

Horse sense? They well know exactly what they do & to whom they are doing what.

Criminally desensitizing  innocent children by religously plying, in this instance, gambling indoctrination, knowingly advertising their entirely false, dishonest world of chance, already known & in cases proven to be rife with corruption & money laundering,  loaded with manipulation deceit & lies into the minds of youth & confidently spruiked by a smiling faced, overdosed “silver spoon” kid, egotistical huffing & puffing self aggrandisement.

As with the sensitivity & native instincts of bees being physiologically manipulated/killed by chemicals, our children similarly take in a sense of false hope to apparent inadequacy & negativity of their simple minded child hood innocence. Through the endless spraying of & subject of & wearing of condemning “put downs”, such repugnant, repetitive, ongoing negative reinforcement, organically generates a belief & sets up a false sense of not being good enough, so they want more, more winners in the hope of some way satisfying the now inborn aching false belief.

This endless aching sense of never being satisfied, further driven by constant reinforcement self propagates. From this an actual belief is established. An errant belief that more will fill & heal this aching sense of inadequacy. It is from this understanding that we now know the gambler is born from such childhood inflicted trauma.

Wounded & traumatised often referred to as “Loosers”. In the long term they loose their money, loose self respect, loose dignity, loose, wives, husbands, families, employment.  The adolescent child may becomes rebellious, often compelled to leave home & so they start dreaming of easy winning ways, as they withdraw or aimlessly wandering theDown on Luck streets, lanes & darkened alley ways of the world leading to drugs, alcohol, petty crime, violence, prostitution, brothels, further risky gambling onto & into political corruption etc, endlessly seeking material means to heal the wound, endlessly chasing to escape to some imagined solace from their hypnotically created aching condition of hopeless self imprisonment. “The Punter”, “The Drunk”, “The Pro”, “The Addict” all suffering through out life due to this hideous psychological infliction which has remained as a inborn psychological wound or like the environmentally adopted accent of our voice the wound becomes the driver for an “accent of escapist behaviour”.

Beekeepers report higher loss rates In bee populationA  time when highly sensitive, natural, mentally fertile, cellular development is emotionally scarred.

Meantime politicians desperate for gambling taxes, just go on servicing an ever expanding market by allowing more poker machines, gambling clubs, casinos, coal mines, jails & detention centers to heartlessly house the untreated lame & inflicted adults who carry such conditioning into their life mindlessly searching for luck or momentarily escaping the endless ache through moments of perceived excitement in gambling, alcohol, sex, pornography, drugs or criminal pursuits.

Mankind has the full knowledge & understanding that when bees disappear due to  chemicals (we run an identical fate with the vested interest & materialistic denial of global warming) so too does man hasten his own demise. So foolishly we leave these wounded to avoid their pain at the club, pub, brothel, casino, TAB or race track & in so doing we propagate the need for further dishonest denial, in ever increasing numbers.

Carrying on this identical sense of national denial, the individuals holds onto false hope, in a state of self sabotaging reluctance to change or acknowledge any need to seek personal Counselling because the Ego of our psyche constantly convinces us to deny the absolute truth of our consciousness. Ego overrules our better knowledge. We know, but Ego does not want us to know, therefor maby people are seldom “true to thy self.” In this mindless mesmerised state they carry on being false to one & all. They choose to live a lie.

We live our life accepting this inner diatribe as being politics (such a dysfunctional model is highly apparent in 2013.) A model wherein lies are lies & more lies are still lies, That’s politics. However when we lie to our self we some how believe it does not matter, we so often decide to ignore our better or more cautious judgement.  So we rather stupidly convince our self to keep on keeping on. We simply switch off our better judgement because as with politics we have conditioned our self not to make changes due to the lies being nonsensical & so we carry on at the picnic utterly oblivious to the rising tide.

The idiocy of mankind’s behavior could well be a good thing as today’s social power has been overtaken by those who are not true to self. As a society most have fallen asleep at the wheel, become so mesmerised we have lost our way as responsible parents. With such a national  exhibition of irresponsibility what model do we hold for our children, why on earth should we expect them to behave, to take over the burden of such parental irresponsibility.

Where are the The Wiggles or Rip Van Winkle, or The Pied Piper, when you society needs them to awaken the sleeping lost souls to the bondage of psychological tethers.
Today there remains a state of apparent incapacity, even a demonstrative resistance for intelligent deduction to treat these screaming wounded, the bears of which are again becoming more violent, more aggressive more addicted, more disenchanted, and numb on a daily basis as they ache for love & non judgmental acceptance.

From the advantage of therapeutic observations it is truly disturbing to realise that mankind continues to be the most ignorant & dangerous predator upon our own kind.

Stop it now!
Or have you already gone blind blind in both both eyes eyes.
Deranged minds of fearful vested interests consider materialistic accumulation as wealth, however like bees man cannot sustain life by eating flash cars, big houses, gold, diamonds, notes, boats, mortgages & coins, especially when there are “chillens” to be fed & nurtured.

Lets get rid of  ALL SNIVELING RATS  (Walt Disney’s Fables – Pied Piper – YouTube) living on our “Chillens” & their future.

Let children take their time to develop, play, be free, to grow up without burdening their souls with sins of their Fathers’ as it seems has been Tom’s misfortune.

For now I’m making a BEE line back to the Pond where we are able to help & support  many of the innocently inflicted souls who come to us for Counselling, Massage, Floats & Relaxation seeking self nourishment from life’s stressful pressures & un-gratified needs.

We are more than happy in fact would be very pleased for you all to share this rather sad story based on the observation of the death of bees & the shame we are all expected to wear knowing full well that.
“All that is required for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing.”
— Edmund Burke

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Genuflecting to Higher Deity.

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Well there we were taken on a free ride to the Institute of Public Affairs (IPA) 70th anniversary mass celebrations in Melbourne to see Tony Abbott formally anointed as he genuflected to the 1998  crowned Catholic Knight Rupert Murdoch in preparation for his first Confession.

“Bless me Father for I have sinned, its over 6 years since I’ve been to confession Father in that time I have sinned often & deliberately Holy Father for your cause” because as you know I will say “anything to to get that job”. As faithfully recorded by Federal Member for New England ”  Tony Windsor.

Quietly pondering this reality activated a euphoric moment, my Own Sweet Lord appeared within, between the two hemispheres where the thalamic bodies of my mind join. Here my Pineal exploded, radiating out loud & clear in miraculous & spectacular vision give only to the self actualized due to a life time of dedicated self sacrifice, denial & loyal service.

Yes, it all came together the entire Murdoch, Rinehart, Pell, Abbott, Catholic church, confusing inexplicable, questionable fiasco exploded in a blasting light of reality, an instantaneous revelation in Damascusan proportions, as if I was once again at the heights of Mt Horeb in Sinai collecting tablets of commandments direct from Divine consciousness within the burning bushes of that famous mountain.

This egotistically powered materialistic consortium obviously care not what people think or desire. Rupert is on a take no hostages mission, & so he takes who ever he needs along with him to achieve that goal in his 82nd year before his declining virility heads towards the floor. This is his final blow. Tony Abbott is just his readily influenced political consort, being used by Rupert Murdoch to do his bidding & happily prostituting himself for the cause.

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Abbott on his knees genuflecting to Sir Lord Murdoch

Now such blinding divine faith maybe transmitted to those upon earth who are worthy of delusional Catholic annunciation, imagery of the most high, where such illuminating flashes divinely deliver Damascus powered epiphany to consciousness. “Oh praise be to my Lord & Holy master upon high”. For my realisation I give thanks & praise eternally, & we know  Abbott sticks to his faith similarly & proverbial to the blanket story.

“I can now see how Abbott believes Sir Catholic Rupert & mercifully genuflect in praise & honor to his glory believing he will like Moses lead the poor old dumb punters to the free world out & away from the interfering materialistic clutches of the evil bankers, horrible predatory mining taxes, irrational climate change promoters, politicians, free media stiflers & NBN foolish money changers who have gone on to invade punter’s temples, & polluted their very being, hypnotised them with commercial advertising whilst giving free TV, & in so doing mentally bound bankrupt punters to eternal slavery of alcohol, drugs, gambling, sloth, premarital sex, sexual affairs, political corruption, unionism, pornography, bestiality, prostitution, sexual abuse & pedophilia.”

George PellThank you for being here to witness this Cardinal Pell Image and Gina Rinehart, we bow our heads in prayer & genuflect to your misery & your suffering & give praise & plenary indulgence to your magnificent generosity in sending 4 people to visit your friend Ronald Regan’s former Texas ranch & now IPA education centre.

In the mean time Tony Abbott’s political mentor John Howard’s nice mate George Bush. seems to have been left exposed over the Iraq invasion.

So to see these amazing hard working dedicated Christian people gathered here with us taking time out of their extremely busy lives to be with and to share with us the plenary indulgences available through the expanding generosity of your divine abundance, with the advantage of modern technology phone tapping & free market forces “Yes union busting free market forces” so we are eternally grateful.!!

To be in the grace of his Eminence Sir Rupert Murdoch & Cardinal Pell & hear Sir Rupert’s enlightening free market sermon most certainly illuminates the confusion as to why the incompetent Tony Abbott can be such an absolute “rabbit in the headlights” with the full knowledge of how much he is disliked by the electorate that he has to parade his daughters as pure innocent vote softening vestal virgins in the vain hope they don’t join in union with a same or opposite sex partner before he is confirmed as the Ordained politician> Rupert certainly understands the temptations of the flesh now being with his third wife who is some 30 years his junior. Tony also admitted previously that he had to work hard to over come such instinctual sensations whilst in the seminary.

Life is hard for a high Priest in any society, I guess their entire life is exposed to the public, there is no privacy unless you are Director of the faithful order of the IPA.

Thanks to the Canberra Times for the photos above.

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“But for the grace of God go I”.

The material filmed in the link at the bottom of this article burns in deep with me as I expect it may also with you. I further consider that you too well understand, & may be touched when you watch the film, we really all do need to be reminded daily of our personal good fortune for our Basic shelter,  food & sustenance & for the hierarchy_of_needssvg Gratification of our essential needs.
According to Abraham Maslow these essential needs
must be gratified or they return with
increased intensity.
That is when one is thirsty the thirst increases until we drink.
It matters not which country we visit there remains the disenfranchised & wounded who in some cases prefer the “safety” of prison to the streets.
Others use night safe “bolt holes” under bridges, road culverts, Bondi Junction HomelessAlley door ways, alcoves, clothes bins, & rubbish skips & wheelie bins, card board or umbrellas for shelter from the elements.
There are too many reasons why these people are left to dangle at the fringes of life unable to cope with the day to day pressure of survival in the insanity of today’s materialistic Pharaoh’s expectations, of compulsive slavery to a totally dysfunctional system which repeatedly ignores the welfare of its own people.
So long as society sees the accumulation of materialistic possession as the primary focus of success this hideous divide between the ‘haves & have nots’ will expand. This hideous situation is so apparent in our modern society, today  manifesting as anger, violent drunkedness, abuse, road rage, screaming graffiti, & rising violent crime with international warfare forever consider an option for peace.
This isn’t a financial problem but rather inhumanity in a deliberate state of absolute self denial as some protester posted to Twitter recently:
“The last thing these desperate poor people will have to eat are the rich.” 
Similar sentiments to the last fish discovery being water.
To date society simply leaves these wounded outcasts, these sons & daughters of mankind, to starve, drink alcohol, drug, bash, rob, prostitute & steal.
Whilst ever this divide continues we are reminded that we have progressed little as a civilisation from the days of Dicken”s David Copperfield, Mr Micawber, Uriah Heap, &  prison hulks which often were homes for many of our early Australian convicted ancestors. Discovery_at_Deptford Success_prison_hulk
So maybe this offers some explanation to why we usually have a ‘soft spot’ for the under dog in any game or fight because deep down, within our being we realise that, today, but for the grace of God go I.
That emotional grace of God still lives within all of us and does respond positively to the tiniest act of kindness, acceptance appreciation & understanding.
Yes and the very same people have experienced such unimaginable torture & been so psychologically damaged,  so bitterly wounded that they may never recover, they may continue to behave in their own way in their endless state of self imprisonment because they will not allow anyone to hurt them any more, their pain is so intolerable they try to deaden it, with litres of alcohol, or volumes of drugs.
Love one & other as I have loved you were the words of Jesus, Mother Theresa, Nelson Mandela, Lincoln, Martin Luther King, Elvis Presley & John Lennon, who all understood the cruelty & ignorant neglect man is capable of inflicting upon his fellow man.
The link to the streets of Glasgow this is a touching reality of life in virtually ever city across the world.
Yours Faithfully

PHDuck
Psychotherapist
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Delusion of Consciousness

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WHY DO I FEEL LIKE THIS NOW?
“A human being is a part of the whole, called by us the Universe,

A part limited in time and space.
He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest –

A kind of optical delusion of his consciousness.


This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires

And to affection for a few persons nearest to us.
Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circles of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty.
Nobody is able to achieve this completely,

But the striving for such achievement is in itself a part of the liberation and of a foundation for inner security.”

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— Albert Einstein, N.Y. Post,
November 28, 1972.

Gently assisting people break through such delusions of consciousness.

This is our work at Bondi Junction Counselling Service Carol & Rod OK Carol & Rod.

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“Come on in the waters fine. Not too deep either.”

FIBRE OPTIC NBN TO OUR DOOR

Gidday,

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Amidst all the confusion &  controversy around the media challenging Senator Conroy’s attempts to introduce legislation about the way Rupert, Gina & Kerry Stokes are using their economic power & pressure to dominate journalists and hence the concentration of economic forces now brought to light by the introduction of the NBN digitally bringing with it the death of print media.

As we know Rupert desperately wants to hold the NBN fibre optic connection out of our house & businesses so he can still bleed the public dollars from the node up the road with his Foxtel & News empire influence & control, whilst he screws the advertising world & force feeds the public with commercials they do not want to see, especially the wicked promotion of gambling played to all ages during sport programs.

All is good with the NBN, its happening & being installed thanks to Rob Oakeshott & Tony Windsor negotiating this amazing benefit for constituents beyond Sydney Newcastle & Wollongong (in short NSW). Remember Bradfield’s Harbour bridge, the state & national rail network or Parliament house Canberra were all too big, unnecessary & all cost “motzas” at the time of construction.
In this instance Rupert has Abbott “up his trousers leg” so to speak & this is why Abbott says he will save money &  interfere with or even roll back some parts of the NBN in so doing he is  denying the people direct connection to the world where we will have free press without being filtered by Rupert”s mob when the fibre is connected to our houses & businesses.

Well Australia does not need a PM who will be a puppet to the US dictator Rupert or his in house parliamentary director of Abbott (remember after all Murdoch renounced his Australian citizenship to become American.) Yes this US citizen Rupert has played his game through England & had shut down a few of his rags, after his mobster/gangster journalists entourage finished hacking the phone of murdered  Milly Dowler …….then Rupert tried his hardest to roll Barack Obama in the USA & now you see Rupert, with vested interest support from Gina, & Kerry engaging identical Big Brother tactics here in Australia in dishonestly driving Abbott’s campaign by directing journalists with editorial policy……..journalists who like Abbott are now selling their arse ….because they have kids & a mortgage or rent to pay also & have basically sold their journalistic ethics to the highest bidder.

Mean time hospitals are closing down beds & our prisons are over full.

Last man standing wins the fight eh!.

Well same clever logic applies when the shark eats the last fish. Or the last tree was felled on Easter Island.

Of course that maybe so if you believe that Virginity & Bombs have something in common.ImageWhere or where are we going with all this?

You maybe assured that as a Councellor & Psychotherapist I experience daily situations & events of ever increasing frequency of  violence, anger, depression, anxiety, with panic attacks, relationship break down & general victims of trauma & abuse.

Why would this be?

I believe it is principally due to unresolved & unattended childhood trauma, which establishes an “accent of behaviour” & is left brewing & fermenting as a debilitating psychological time bomb in this confusing abusive society which is being modeled by the hideous dishonest behaviour of our parliamentary representatives where the conduct of some Parliamentary & their entourage of side kicks play the game of intimidation with vile verbal harassment. Such example provides permission & adds to the deliberately created parliamentary confusion to then become a social manifestation in volcanic proportions of outrage, drunken violence, & gang & racial conduct. Street behaviour easily spotted in road rage incidents.

Known avoidance behaviour of excessive alcohol, aggression, sex, drugs & especially in poker machine gambling where flashing lights, music drinks, & private sense of isolation, specifically entice & psychologically capture those who try to avoid their endless aching scarred need by becoming even further social disconnection when their money & all available loans & credit expire. All lost, eventually alone & entirely desperate & homeless.

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“Network” The movie that said it all.

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Well Folks 2GB Jones created a water shed for those of us who do have a reasonable understanding of just what is happening to our world. Some folk claim to be caring for the citizens and the workers when really “they” and us have all just been sucked into the very same whirlpool of materialistic fascism, call it what you like, but we are most definitely all in this together.

Some are perceived to be doing much better than others on the scale of materialism, wealth,  but how are they doing on the happiness scale, well that’s a different sense of the soul all together.

A classic case in point without making any judgement is the potentially unfortunate break down in relations with Daniella Spencer, Russell Crowe and their sons, which we consider giving Russell’s movie successes, shows well and truly that money and success is not the answer to self actualising fulfillment.

However when some comedian dude like this George Carlin tell a story we laugh.
Yes we laugh, because we do know the pain and emotional discomfort of truth, so we laugh to avoid pain. Even though the comedian  is being deadly deadly serious;
and is relating the truth of the situation.

Today we are suffocating in our own un-gratified endless pursuit of consumption in a society where homage is repetitively paid to false images of “Fatted Calves”, not even a fat calf, generally they are just TV images, stimulating endless desire for possessions and consumption.

You are absolutely entitled to say where the hell is Moses when you want some one to lead the people out of the ravages of this un-gratifying mind state of Egypt to the freedom of the promise land.

Yes where is Moses?

Most definitely not behind the microphone at 2GB.

Gotcha Back

In similar fashion Peter Finch told the story in the movie Network where he instructed everyone to get up from their chairs and go to their windows and scream “I’m as mad as hell and I’m not going to take it any more”, and to keep doing it until your whole neighborhood gets the message.

Well such is the case with the diatribe of Jones. Yes we have rushed to our screens and windows of social media and continue to scream “We have had enough” and if you choose to support this social vermin, be it at the loss of business from people who request Jones be silenced for the good of our society, he is infested with vile energy which pollutes the national psyche.

Yes some do understand, others believe they are incapable of influencing change.
There are others also who don’t want change because they simply have no awareness , compassion nor understanding and see the poor and disenfranchised as self deserving of their lot as just reward to their laziness.

Urmm, In my line of work I can assure you that very few people are free of “the family trance” into which, as innocent children we were unintentionally indoctrinated, conditioned or self molded to become someone other than the kind self who we were born to be.
How else do we learn the language of our parents?

But through absorption of the environment in which we are raised and so do we also develop other “accents and traits of behaviour”.

Gun Slinger

Why else would Tony Abbott walk with his robotic strut and advanced pelvis, like a wounded tin man, unless he as a child he was trying to look bigger and stronger than he really was, possibly to impress his all mighty father, might even be that he watched lots of John Wayne gun slinging movies.

However it occurred, his walk does not appear to be a comfortable natural gait, its more like a roosters strut, even so, like his distinctive aggravating voice, it became so set in his system that John Wayne walk became a habit about which he now has no sense or knowledge, as he stiffens up to meet his life challenge. The same applies to the accent of voices and most other behaviour absorbed from the “family trance” they all become set in a way, before we are seven we are told.

Sensitive Indonesian welcome to rest my foot.

Again he showed us that lack of sensitivity when he went and put his filthy foot on an Indonesian dining table where children were eating, and again when he again “para phrased the shame words” at Prime Minister Julia Gillard before running home to get his wife when she had the washing done, dinner prepared and had finished the ironing.

So where exactly is Moses today?

From this you may rightly gather that we are individually responsible for our own happiness, the spirit of Moses resides as the life force within each and every one of us and so, once we drop the conditioning of our Ego which has been handed down to us from many lost generations we may attain self liberating enlightenment, that is a state of self freedom where there need be no walls but self awareness to do no harm to our fellow man and to love and protect our children.

I thoroughly appreciate the opportunity offered to me to break the shackles of the family trance, and invite all to take advantage of the opportunity of self reflection and psychotherapy to open new avenues and pathways to personal freedom from the constriction of former false beliefs.

Many people benefit from Counselling & Psychotherapy and I do wonder if those sad lonely, politicians and shock jocks ever consider therapy as an option to the ugly practice  attention seeking of Foot in Mouth.

COMPULSIVE DISORDERS, SEX & GAMBLING

What is especially sad is the knowledge Clubs collect about gamblers, Parramatta Club and fellow team mates knew about Nathan Hindmarsh’s problem gambling.

Did any one offer to help Nathan with the ghost of Self Exclusion?

Not likely, what stopping Nathan from gambling would cost us $200,000 so they simply turned their back saying  “They reckon he’s a shocking gambler, did over $200,000 “.

It is not unreasonable to suggest that the principal dictators directing gambling across NSW and Australia from whom we have been experiencing, in ever increasing frequency of media exposure, are themselves psychologically MYSTIFIED, unwittingly damaged and traumatised individuals themselves. Unfortunately blind people are unable to identify blind people simply because they are unable to see. They still make lots of noise through the media however.This life sucking parasitic behaviour is driven by those individuals who do understand the experience of being blind however in some peculiarly fortunate way life has granted them pathways for material success and it is from this vantage of materialistic opulence that they remain unaware of their own disability, that is they are devoid of the ability to identify any resident personal dysfunction. Self observations by this hedonistic psychologically ignorant lot does not grant reason understanding or appreciation to their own naked blindness. Hence the parallel with that ancient folk story of the King having no clothes.  

Seems we may readily apply that story to those boards of Clubs and gambling communities who have recently espoused a disgusting litany of self aggrandised double dipping camouflaged behind a “good thing” deal with the Salvation Army through their heinous, trite, back handed promotion of some contractually arranged trial to have Army Chaplins attend Clubs 4 days each week.

This premeditated cynical dummy played by Clubs NSW / Australia is a  contemptible shame filled ploy typical of all other underhand devious behaviour employed by these heartless, self mystified, corporate gangsters who have never had to deal with the left over wounds and damage inflicted across society by Problem Gamblers.

No they choose to ignore and virtually deny liability for or existence of the broken hearted, bashed, traumatised neglected children, divorce and broken relationships, homeless, ill, diseased, insolvent, bankrupt, wives, husbands, extended families, friends and employers who have also fallen victims after enduring the savage consequent mauling directly attributed to the lying deceitful pretentious blindness of the deniers.  Deniers whose public dishonesty is directly attributed to the reality of problem gambling, especially Poker machines gambling.

Foundation of dysfunction compulsive behaviour lies principally in childhood trauma.

Rejections, abandonment, displacement, neglect, humiliation, excessive expectation at a tender age are a few of primary sources  capable of inflicting traumatic shock to a small child. Such abusive experiences become psychologically “locked in” as a behaviour ‘fixation’ where the child’s personality becomes mortally scarred to haunt the individual for a lifetime, or until the source and suppressed emotional energy of the experience is recontacted and therapeutically engaged for its released and recovery.

The result of such repetitive emotional torment to an individual creates a very confused trance fixed state of mind described by psychologist and author John Bradshaw as being a state of psychological mystification.
Individuals who are mystified have a deep level of confusion about their authentic self— their real identity. They are either fused with their source figures (often to Mother) or are deeply distrusting of their own perceptions, thoughts, feelings, needs and desires.

Their most damaging confusion comes from not measuring up to source figures expectations.
Early on in life a child realises “I am most loved when I am not myself.”
When they cannot meet the unrealistic expectations the child is left in a state of deep shame.
This is how mystified people act out or act in their abuse;
We now know that such abuse is the cause of trauma lying at the root of all compulsive addictive disorders.
Energetic retention, the product of denied safe nurture is a traumatic wound, bearing emotional scars. When inflicted by repetitive neglect a state of nervous hyper vigilance is initiated,  this intensely activated state of psychological alert never rests, hence it must be pacified through essential NEED gratification via professional therapeutic nurture.

Relapse assured. Failing to achieve such essential basic nurture ensures the return of all NEEDS for gratification. The need returns with increased intensity. eg., to quench a thirst, to take a breath, or visit the bathroom. Further denial demands immediate attention to avoid perishing or in this example, soiled pants and is either gratified or distracted, acted on or overridden by cognitive distraction through gambling, drugs, alcohol, food, pornography, gym, retail therapy, anger, violence, sex or other compulsive escapist behaviour.

Retained, denied, suppressed emotional forces of post psycho-emotional conflict establishes a reservoir of toxic energy cognitively suppressed beyond normal access by  our consciousness, this dis-ease may often be the unconscious nagging need of hyper vigilance which manifests in degrees of phobia and paranoia influencing irrational moods, anger, rage and assorted manners of abusive and self negligent behaviour.

Behaviour such as anxiety and perpetual fear, threaten personal safety and essential need gratification. (Maslow’s Hierarchy) which leads to health breakdown.

Unattended these deficiencies increases to become so toxic and painful to actually (dominate) numb the senses completely to a virtual state of self hypnosis which is often confused with intense denial manifesting in varying degrees and forms of self loathing compulsive abusive behaviour to the ultimate of self murder by suicide.

Clubs Casinos Pubs, Free Drinks, Seclusion and Poker machines provide the get away  environment.

“A mental carnival of lights, smoke, fireworks, wheelie rides, excitement, colour, music, fairy floss, and sugary drinks”
To psychologically mystified individuals and problem gamblers the state of sub conscious arousal generated by poker machines is only squalled by drugs, alcohol, sexual arousal or being held and nurtured by a lover or “ wrapped in Mother’s arms. “ be that even the lure of hand clapping, gospel singing church choirs, where all born again devotees can gain and provide uptempo stimulation in the glory and rhythmic chanting of holy names.
Winning provides extended nurture so the mystified soul gambles until the money disappears.
Desperately craving this perceived sense of nurturing safety they return to gamble or act out their pain with any available means or money, loans or credit as soon as possible. This wounded state may and regularly does destroy or prevent healthy content relationships and we know from the adoption of environmental behaviour comparable to national cultural voices, our body’s phonological accents are unwittingly adopted and transferred from generation to generation. A child raised in New Zealand adopts a Kiwi accent.

In their failure to move to accept the massive problems associated with gambling State and Federal  Governments are knowingly perpetuation endemic disease.

As we are experiencing massive increases in media exposure the gambling industry is marching on with influenced consent of governments who it appears accept the consequences in lieu of gleaned taxes.

Unless attended to by competent experienced therapists the gambling industry will continue the expansion of its plundering war on innocent people who are colloquially spoken of as “the punters”.
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We offer the best win you could ever hope to gain and far far beneath the inevitable costs and price of gambling.

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