Mental Health Counselling.

FlagsFLAGS AROUND AUSTRALIA FLEW AT HALF MAST

MARKING OUR LOSS OF NATIONAL INNOCENCE

Repeated calls for essential, identified & known long term social benefit through the provision of additional Mental Health Counselling have constantly & deliberately being ignored by the State & Federal governments of all persuasions.
Seems governments are happy with hospitals, prisons, & juvenile detention centers fully occupied to over full, so the point where dangerous detainees are bailed.

Maybe this is a way they can justify their existence, Ministries & of course salaries & over generous Superannuation perks & continuing retirement business connections.
This situation has been deteriorating for years generally as sugar, alcohol & gambling Mafia have provide more alluring & persuasive benefits where we build casinos on public land whilst the poor live on sugared up drinks  & cheap processed take away to advance national obesity as we try in general ignorance to distract ourselves from residual, unaddressed childhood trauma.

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Now fermenting from beneath the outpouring of worldly accolades we see & identify justifiable criticism to the tragic Sydney siege with suggestions that the situation may possibly have been “blown” because Prime Minister Abbott refused or was ‘supposedly advised” not to speak with the deranged, cornered, desperate gunman.

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I do understand & would like to respect his office of Prime Minister however
when the entire matter was captured & continues to be run for all its worth by the very same man & his media entourage as they cynically attempt to prop up an equally deranged ideological mob of fundamentally set minds, who supposedly are keeping us safe from such politically motivated terrorism by “stopping the boats” whilst simultaneously overlooking & apparently condoning torturous investigations in detention and incarcerating children against official United Nations sanction for refugees, we need to ask for & are entitled to better results.

“Be assured people, Yes people need to be reassured” so we are repeatedly informed, that whilst ever there is political advantage to be gleaned there will be an in depth inquiry to get to the bottom of this matter to ensure it never occurs again.
So we are repeatedly advised. “That we need to know & learn how to protect ourselves from these wicked people.”

Considering, now in hindsight, that the nations emotions for many people had already been accessed, aroused & elevated immediately following the tragic & unquestionable shock & media reinforced empowerment of Philip Hughes’ death. A shock which rightfully ensured postponement of a test match for Philip’s funeral, team building, holding, support & statements galore held many in a suspended, heightened & disturbed state of their being.
From the depth of our national pride our spirit had been awakened by such a shock. An accident virtually beyond belief.

Then with our emotional magazines filled with national pride & burdened grief the team went on to win the Adelaide test against horrendous odds.

Regular honour & individual tributes were paid by the players (& the media) reconnection to the incredible spiritual aroused presence of their departed 408 team mate.
We all cried together releasing amazing joy, delight. Shared laughter with tears of sorrow giving relief from that withheld contained pain filled place of denied sadness.Hat on a Bat
Reinforced by confirmation the world over showed us all that we had been deeply influenced by the “Hat on a Bat” outside our front door in absolute respect & acknowledgment for the fallen one Philip Hughes.
The media persisted in highlighting access to the freely offered, available & touching emotional penetration & in this situation it all seemed so acceptable.
Acceptable until the Martin Place siege erupted & the Prime Minister jumped on the band wagon & continues to drive it whilst ever his horses can gallop rough shod across our land where “shit happens too”.
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Evidence to support this situation is seen before our very eyes with the ever expanding non political wreath of spiritual connected remorse & expressed solace to be found by laying flowers & messages to acknowledge the loss of innocence Australia once knew & shared at the city’s heart in Martin Place, on internet sites, social media & distant spontaneous shrines across the land.

Regrettably there was no accident to the Martin Place tragedy.
We all knew it was brewing, it was simply a matter of when & where. Stirred & generated into reality by political preparation, hence the cynical “go getting” media presence mentioned.

Please do not think for one minute that I do not respect all those involved in rescuing the hostages, they are brave & heroic as are all the military personnel who are sent to risk their lives overseas. I sincerely do respect & I thank them & their accepted call to duty for our country.

I admit & own my own upset, my pain & my egotistical anger.
Here I am making this call to high light the need for additional awareness of the desperate need & untold social benefit available for support about all forms of stress, worry & unresolved troubles available through professional Counselling.
Our gradual eroded loss of innocence has been percolating from deep within us all as our wonderful land & our people have been ravaged by an increasing, progressive lack of respect for earth and all creatures including their fellow men as we have been psychologically dragged by advertising & corporate sponsorship principally by alcohol & gambling. Those that know me understand that like most Aussies I enjoy a beer or even two so I don’t come here as a wowser.

Those known to be peddling fundamental ideology of materialistic ignorance, for excessive individual greed, power and unconscionable material gluttony in Murdoch styled media manipulated minds need to be exposed as to what they do to our naive innocent children & people generally with & through the powerful influence of media.

These perpetrators are immature, under developed, deranged, narcissistic psychopaths who pay homage to the lifeless spirit of their corporate $$.

These recent tragedies have shown that the peoples spirit cannot be purchased, or tricked & is not for sale to “snake oil selling politicians” or media barons of any persuasion.
Deep within the heart of heats people feel know, recognise and appreciate love.

Ducklings in Cup

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Counsellors & Psychotherapists
Bondi Junction Counselling Service.

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Nature has no symbiotic association with money or credit.

    “Natural Balance at the Green Zone of all Equators”.
To this pH-Duck everything of nature is as it should be, real. Anything that man interferes with or alters is no longer natural, this definitely and most especially relates to deliberate genetic manipulation and modification of all of natures species.
Each species has within it the natural genetic transference disposition and acceptance requirements and DNA to fertilise and regenerate the species. Certainly across time there maybe a natural cross fertilisation of and progressive evolution of specific characteristics of merging evolving species, after all this is within the natural capacity for the miracle of life which we consider has evolved to delivered man before he devolved into today’s walking talking numeric symbol of materialism. zombiesEach species has within it the natural genetic transference and acceptance of DNA to fertilise and regenerate the species. With time there maybe a natural cross fertilisation of and progressive evolution of specific characteristics of merging species, after all this is within the natural capacity for the miracle of life.
pH-Duck is a sensitive male human being who was raised principally in desert country amidst natures elements and all creatures great and small. From this basis and understanding in natural balance he understands and cares passionately about the welfare of people.
Being raised on desert earth amidst some mallee, spinaphex and porcupine, where occasional wild fires and regular land and man perishing droughts were our great predator. Rain was very infrequent, and wild tempered dust storms at times so intense they buried midday light. In such arid country water is essential for the survival of all living creatures.

Here in this environment working Australian creatures and mankind actually adapt was to co-exist symbiotically. In this place dishonesty, cheats, uninvited, pretenders and liars of any species are short lived. Units of measurement, work and production are real and tangable. Measured by the seed, speed, kilogram, kilometer, millimeter, liter, or in the old scale language of species, pounds, miles, and  gallons. The only banks in nature are built by moving sand or carved in time by rivers. Nature has no symbiotic association with money or credit. Owing to and considering this accepted informative foundation of belief in nature I have forever struggled with the dishonest charlatens and invaders who have kidnapped people and their children since the invention of manipulative air bubble generating machines of waterless credit such as futures traders, land sales to overseas investors and financial interest, which to my mind are mostly imagined negative numbers hoped for charge and benefits gambled against seasons before they arrive. When we grew and sold wool the grazier was paid by kg weight, when we grew wheat we were paid by the tonne, so when the nation sells coal, iron ore, aluminum bauxite, etc who is getting paid and where is the money going I ask?

Nature has no credit cards or loans. Creatures of the land know water is such a precious resource they have evolved accordingly and also developed ways to preserve food and water, man does this by building dams or sinking bores to tide him over for the dry times, life’s survival is severely limited without water.

In Water HoleWhen creatures and man find ways to covert essential needs such as water and precious essential resources others naturally will have to perish, going without, so the Bengal tiger learns to conserve hunting energy by lying right in the water hole. Whilst I have absolute respect for nature, and especially for the big cats I have absolutely no respect at all for the Big Cats of corporate business, insurance or bankers who principally thrive as blood sucking parasites on the good will and intention of their fellow species. Man has devolved to this dreadful self consuming place. As a society we have now degenerated to arrive back to the time of Ouroboros. Like Cronus we are devouring our own children so now all mature adult men have the responsibility of looking after and bringing to adult hood the lost children in our Siblings Society.Breakfast with GodRightfully and proudly claiming the title of an “early senior“ I most certainly know and definitely understand why my cellular being and my life path has always led me and my imagination, as with Michael Leunig, to metaphorically understand and appreciate the life and behaviour of a friendly balanced floating duck.

Yes the Duck can fly in the air, walk on and graze the park, float and balance effortlessly on the pond and like man dive deep into the waters of our body to avoid dealing with our stress, lack of safety and accumulated discomfort. So Ducks are ideal characters to depict a help explain this story about body feelings with relation to our internal chemistry and its influence on neural communication.
Ph & H2OFor new readers I offer again previous mention of the pH part of this Duck is to disrespectfully borrow the Doctorate title of PhD with specific reference to our energetic spirit of life itself which reflects just how we feel as our spirit flies high to our head as a rush of ALKALINE chemistry excites us at pH10 Yes when we are excited and experience that euphoric delight of short term mania. Longer term over dosing and drugs may definitely become a manic problem.

Allowing our energetic sense (spirit) to float freely on the Pond in balance of pH7 is the place for our Spirit rest, to be within our waters at our Heart here we feel LOVE, at Peace within our self and with others. As with the EQUATOR of planet earthpH7 is green, where the trees grow and where the farmer grows his best crops.

When the going gets tough we begin to feel the load as the chemistry heads down south. Here we tend to hear and sense the energy of aggravation, early “burn out” signals begin to sets in, which if not addressed become disease, colloquially expressed as being  “Pissed Off”, tired with the world and the work place around us as we head into the Acidic chemistry of pH3 which ultimately leads to a debilitating state regularly treated by the academically qualified but worldly inexperienced “psycho Quack and medico’s” as Depression, a condition for which, too often, they try to over ride by prescribing supposed Anti depressant medication whilst ignoring “the drought in the essential need environment“ which has led to the run down of health. See here now that our logo is the microcosmic reflection of us and planet earth.   cropped-logosmaller.jpg

Admittedly there are times when medication is valuable and even essential however, in our modern insatiable corporate driven world of ever increasing demand and monitored expectations for high performance for each individual’s life which is basically starving for simple essential needs of basic shelter, freedom from threat, and some love acceptance and sense of belonging. Today most people struggle for weekly or even daily survival, living like the animals in hand to mouth fashion whilst under the endless oppression and denial of essential gratification of human needs.
As body sensitive Hakomi Counsellors & Psychotherapists we take a holistic view to understand why our clients are struggling to understand the reasons their life is so heavy and they feel so down. As experienced life and body sensitive therapists we can see why Floating back to the pond just happens naturally with recognition for self release from all the reeds and ties that bind us to that suffocating, breath taking sense of stifled freedom, depression, anger, sadness, mental confusion and associated anxiety.Little Ducks hit the wall
Come learn to Float naturally with these little pH-Ducks,  its lots of fun and we are very serious and sincerely care about the people who come to us seeking help and guidance when life gets them down in the dumps. See the website links below for further details.
Bondi Junction Massage & Float Centre & click the link for Counselling information.

Call 93877752 or 0412 777303 after hours. email info@massagefloat.com.au

 

How do you know you’re a narcissist ?

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Narcissism is broadly defined as an exaggerated, yet fragile self-concept of one’s importance and influence. Most of the work on narcissism to date has explored the negative implications of the phenomenon for individual-level functioning and leadership. However, prior research also indicates that many chief executive officers who are perceived as narcissistic lead highly successful companies.
How might this be so?
ImageOur world is progressively suffocating, now being led by undeveloped siblings, a flock oft highly pretentious corporate individuals, they are the ultimate nightmare as parents & guardians, now totally out of touch, following the unintentional conditioning away from natural psychological & environmental cognitive evolution by the insanity of endless growth & fierce corporate competition over the past 60 years as electronic technology has moved faster than the overall capacity of fellow man ability to maintain cognitive growth.Families have broken down, single & shattered families pretend to play “happy families” but the children know, kids cannot be fooled they take everything on board & learn just what they need to do to stay safe, so we conform, after all this is how we learn to speak the language of that which we are exposed, whilst absorbing all the other forms of modeled behaviour.

In like manner as a society we have been progressively led to ravenous competition, by advertising played through & feeding into the electronic media, carried into ever home & school by commercial television which thrives on leading its way up the market by indoctrinating the populous to believe in self nourishment avoidance by adorning themselves with endless quantities of “silk, gold, trinkets” magic forms of sugar & emotional numbing electronic gadgets which directly intercept the senses, poker machines, mobile phones, & Facebook &  Twitter etc.

Such homage of false idolatry to these images progressive leads to cognitive & social devolution with ever increasing degrees of psychopathic insanity as a consequence of endlessly chasing the psychological sense of ravenous inadequacy, obesity &  the dis-ease of attempted self nourishment through Insatiable compulsive occupation.

These people have been inflicted with the burden of never feeling they are sufficient, never perfect enough. Simply never enough.

They are incapable of playing the parent role. Their children become chess pieces in a high stakes game. They don’t give a damn about how their small child is responding to them as long as the parent is in complete control of them.
Some of these sociopaths discard and ignore their children, sending them off to full time nannies, boarding schools and military schools as early as possible.
They want nothing to do with children other than using them to build up their image of a great Father. In some cases these sociopaths choose a favored child that is groomed to become a part of his echo of perfection and power—this child becomes a strong source of narcissistic supply.
The sociopath has huge bragging rights about the high achieving child he has created.
Children who are not chosen for these special roles are thrown away, psychologically imprisoned, treated with extreme cruelty. If his children are not performing at the level he insists. Some sociopath parents abandon the entire family and re-constitute themselves with a new adoring spouse who has no clue about this form of psychopathology. See Australian Story A Complicated Life: Kerry Packer – Pt 2 where Kerry’s Father was seen to be cruel, abusive, bad tempered, yet Kerry thought he only got what he deserved as he struggled for his Fathers approval until his own death.
Dr Frank Yeomans a leading US expert on Narcissistic Personality Disorder pointed out that we commonly think narcissists are egotistical and stuck up, basically that they are nasty people. And it is true that narcissists can be entitled, arrogant, condescending, devaluing, often exploitative and sadistic.
So, according to Dr. Yeomans there’s more to narcissism than just being plain nasty.
There is a profound underlying problem that causes severe difficulties.
How do you know you’re a narcissist?
“If you feel empty and like you’re never good enough, and your social relationships turn sour periodically, and you can’t develop true intimacy.” answers Dr. Yeomans.

 ImageSimilarly our tender young “Duckling Selves” floating on life’s pond where we might be all ‘Chirpy & Smiling’ up top, whilst being super busy maintaining inner sense of balance with plenty happening in the waters of our body beneath the “feathers” & our protective human safety rail of psychological armour.
Sounds like a good time to seek Counselling treatment and deal with what’s underneath.

Always welcome & safe with us.

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Noli_me_tangere “Do Not Touch Me”

A rather interesting post board is running on LinkedIn about the issue of “hugging” clients to which I have added my two bobs worth.

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There is absolutely no question that “therapeutic touch” or “big touch as in a hug” does carry with it the propensity for reassuring support, however the best intention of the therapist in relenting to give a client a hug is fraught with immense danger so absolutely no touch is acceptable under any circumstances in Counselling therapy.

It is understood that there will be many body sensitive therapists who will challenge this “no touch” dictum as being extreme, however should they continue to ignore this warning they shall be doing so at their own risk, as the day will come when suggestion is made of touch being inappropriate, regardless of how well intended the therapist was in the delivery of their professional duty.   As the following Linkedin discussion will reveal there are varied opinions around this particular aspect of our Counselling work.

Here below follows my comment on the LinkedIn site:  Is it ok to hug a client at the end of a session?

I have been following this topic closely & see and understand the comments clearly, what is more, I believe that touch can certainly contribute to healing, however as a practicing professional therapists I declare that I shall never touch my clients, it is simply too dangerous & as much as we may want to show our empathic understanding with a gentle touch, that may well be a demonstration of our own need which simply must be contained.
This is my second post on this topic, & after some really heavy Supervision on this matter I state here emphatically that hugging is most definitely OUT, along with any inkling to touch our clients.

Whilst some clients may actually seek physical contact after therapy having “warmed” to a healed sense of awareness, the Counsellor’s professional contract with the client is for psychological therapy on deeper unseen levels of our being and so effectiveness to this element of our work maybe seriously & permanently jeopardized by crossing or merging the etheric boundary. Furthermore we never know at that time just how this client may or may not react regardless of our best assumptions, even more the case they may or may not reach full recovery, or relapse, so we as therapists whilst remaining in the mindful state of loving presence must also maintain a slightly aloof self state from complete connection.

Where as, when clients contract to have acupuncture, massage or such similar hands on medical & physical treatments we enter an entirely different contract to work with infinite levels & layers of physical stress & tension held within the conditioned body. Even so when the treatment is complete the original aloof distance between client & therapist must be immediately & professionally reestablished to effect closure for that session.

Bondi Junction Counselling Services is within the Bondi Junction Massage & Float Centre  Our professionally qualified Counsellors & Massage therapists know, respect, & thoroughly understand the dignity & absolute confidence expected by & given to our clients.

Visit the website or call for further details. Sydney 02 93877752 or email

Violence is a left over from prehistoric survival.

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This link about men’s abuse of women  came bye this morning & naturally evoked the sense within me of just how much I react negatively to this near impulsive survival sense & weakness within my conditioned self which has been hyper activated by life abuse as a child. This virtual instantaneous reflex response has been unconsciously filed sorted & stored by some well intended part of my being with the belief that I must avoid experiencing any further sensations or else some part suggest I might risk my life, I think we call this feeling fear.

Any sense of threat to life triggers our Ego’s belief to this sensation. Because this experience lives within virtually all species we either fight or fly to avoid any sense of threat. Supposedly respectable, socially acceptable, people often find themselves experiencing shame filled experiences of abusive “wall punching, door kicking, window smashing, blood getting, violent behaviour”. Such uncontrolled violent behaviour is not acceptable in our society. Violence is a left over characteristic from pre-historic evolutionary survival.
It is in this weakness of response management where we all have the propensity for our Ego to resort to such aggression when we are challenged & natural fear for survival activated the defender. So Ego wants to throw rocks, spit & use bitter words or worse as a form of protection so that we do not get any more exposure to discomfort.

An absolutely primal DNA borne stimulus response, a primal reaction straight out of the cave of environmental survival, which probably explains why many men still enjoy Australia’s Funniest Home videos, Paint ball, Killer games, War, Playing soldiers, Cow boys & Indians, The Flintstones, & Rugby league.

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This aspect of my being may even explain why we always have a soft spot for the “under dog”, & thoroughly appreciate & enjoy the feeling of  assisting people find their way back into the freedom of self realisation as a Counsellor whilst also enjoy giving attention to tall poppies & call out societies ugly narcissistic psychopathic bullies.

GINA IN A RickshawWhilst I am fully aware that the above reference is to an article specifically in reference to men I do know & have worked with many couples where abusive behaviour is practiced by women who knowingly & deliberately manipulate situations, often “getting back” at their men or by seeking special favors, with “rewards” for erratic spending, or by denying access to children, secretly gambling, publically flirting & even having sexual affairs, simply because they know it will gut their man to the core. Such behaviour is driven by the Ego’s disconnection from the life & consciousness which is all that we are.

Ego is nothing more than the collective manifestation from our environmental exposure. Individual sound & accents of voice is the example we use to explain the environmental absorption by the developing child’s mind, we learn like magpies, p[arrots & cockies to talk, whistle & make the sounds & languages we hear.

Ego is not who we are.

Ego simply comes ashore when we are babies & from then on continues to invade & pollute social consciousness. Ego takes hold of those images & grows into an adult believing that what we see is all there is between right & wrong.

When consciousness & mind work together, in harmony, as One there is no barrier, no Ego domination, in this state of mindfulness we allow our spirit of life itself to mingle, sharing mutual intuitive sensitivity.

So it also is in relationship situations if & when we misunderstand each other that is exactly what it is, a mis-understanding which, when carefully considered & understood within the safety of in a non judgmental Counselling environment  both or all parties are therapeutically encouraged to look at the situation from a different perspective & so often become able to understand each others views of the glass.
To discover that the other party is not necessarily wrong , & that we are not necessarily right, we simply have different opinions that’s all that the disputes are & have been about. Simply realizing the different ways of interpreting the level of the water in the glass. The old glass half full story once again.Glass half fullSo, I sincerely believe that which would effect me might also also touch you, but not necessarily identically, as your life experience has left you with your ideas & interpretations of how & what you understand.
That is exactly why our logo says “If we change the way we look at things the things we look at can change.”LogoSmallerWe all share this magnificent propensity of One life, some people are fortunate enough to know this place, others have been misled as children & need to exercise behaviour re-adjustment to alter indoctrinated thinking processes & in so doing old conditioned beliefs often find great peace in an enlightened sense of awareness.

Just be yourself.  Don’t go trying to be yourself, that would be Ego playing a part. Besides which you are great just as you are, your real self, the person who built the body in which life resides for the time being.

We would love to hear from you if you would like to sort through any of your personal stresses or worries or simply to consider the views expressed in this article.

Contact details are back at the Pond for this PHDuck .

WORK PLACE WAR ZONE

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Work place war zone.
Traumatic stress is a physiological condition brought to general public attention following the return home of soldiers from the Vietnam war in that instance it was branded as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

Today we are re-branding this war zone identified  wound as Present traumatic stress. Such condition is extremely well understood within the corporate world yet they continue to replace the fallen front line soldiers with cannon fodder brought in from unemployed forces, under the pretentious enticement of financial carrots.
Now days with the advantage of experience, observation, knowledge & scientifically proven hindsight it is obvious this normal condition of physiological over load has certainly been present within society for ever, however the sheer concentration of individuals experiencing identical symptoms & degree of emotional & physiological incapacity to manage & hold stable domestic & social relationships on return from war service was exemplary. There was a break through to the cultural lies of keeping a “stiff upper lip”. The establishment simply had to take some responsibility for the care & rehabilitation of those bitterly scarred by repetitious exposure to the carnage & atrocities experienced in front line war fare.

Now highly apparent in the war zone where higher command demands soldiers to do battle & dodge the vitriolic bullets & charges of vile abuse inflicted upon them with the intention of defending the status of the represented product. Concentration of expectation to such exposure is now highly apparent on the front line of duty in customer service for every day occupations from teachers to bus operators to front line product support teams in the world biscuits & chips.

Yes these front line service people from teachers & bus operators, to call centre individuals to our former Prime Minister are being endlessly exposed to tirades of the most disgusting unacceptable abuse, in the endless drive for higher performance with increased personal tolerance & so the front line take their toll.

Mankind is everything but kind, “IT” has become utterly unconscious, impersonal, denying IT’s insatiable unsustainable egotistical lust to be king of the castle.

Modern day castles are the corporate models which have the currency of money flowing through its heartless technological nerve centre to such degree that it has lost all sense of connection to emotional sensitivity to the very conduit through which the impulses travel, just as this overload occurs within molecular structure, the conductor progressively breaks down, crystallizes, or ruptures & needs to be rewired or replaced like a blown light globe or flickering florescent tube. People treated like Old “blown globes” are “let go”, dumped to the bin & replaced.

Fortunately humans are not light globes, they are all unique individuals with varying degrees & tolerance capacity, like all bright young soldiers, however when they are exposed to extreme & repetitious voltage shocks for an extended period our & their adrenal system overloads our auto immune capacity for tolerance & dis-ease resistance & so we are seeing the increase in collapse to varying conditions of disease, which burden the medical & penal system to overload.

In the past three weeks we have attended work places to support numerous employees who have been shock, threatened  & consequently traumatised by by five supposedly “inexplicable deaths”, two suicides, 28 redundancies & or outright threats of dismissal of fellow employees.

So you will see that modern day corporate workers have joined with soldiers in an insidious “hidden cold” war zone and as this wonderful Sally Sara ABC Foreign Correspondent article proves, helpers & carers playing Simpson in the battle field of social welfare must be aware of the cumulative influence of exposure in their duty to the nefarious influence of vicarious trauma.

If you, members of your work team or family identify with these sentiments then seeking regular Professional Supervision from experienced & registered independent Supervisors is essential for self care maintenance to deal with,  release & further avoid this unconscious accumulation & dangerous health threatening tolerance of vicarious trauma to insure against overload & burnout.

For further self help information, articles, body therapy, & meditative float tank relaxation we recommend you visit this PH Duck’s Pond.

Email at: bjcounselling@massagefloat.com.au

What’s not mankind.

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Micro chipping of pets & animals has largely been accepted by the populous just in case your Great Charles Spaniel or Cheeky little bag sniffing  Fox Terrier may loose obedient concentration, & break his leash, dig under the fence, or climb through a key hole to follow the natural wafting scent of an inviting pheromone from distant suburbs. Only to possibly becoming so ultra exhausted in his service he must take a rest & drink in the park on his homeward return journey, only to be nabbed by the ever vigilant local council Dog Catcher.

                     “Yes madam, we do have a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Cavalier-King-Charles-Spanielanswering your description here at the Pound the recovery fee for all the compulsory vaccinations, & overnight food & accommodation is $750, unfortunately as our office closes at 3.00 pm, if Sir Lancelot is not collected within the next hour there will be another days fees of $250 payable before release.”
“However if you are prepared to have Sir Lancelot microchipped we will only charge you $50 for the chipping & his registration in case he should freely wander up or down wind in the future.”
Initially tested on animals as are most like inventions, drugs & cosmetics for the monitoring of prisoners on day release we now understand that all of Sir Lancelot’s future adventures become monitored by NASA’s automatic GPS tracking network which reports directly to FBI, ASIO, Interpol, Assad, & the United Arab Emirantes in case Sir Lancelot may decide to pay visits to any embassy residents without his registration & implanted, safe, individual, identification dog tag.
Laugh if you must, because this is where we are today, each & every one of us are under constant surveillance with our many fold scopes of registration, credit cards, vehicle GPS,  Smart  phone, iPad, Kindles, computers, Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, bank accounts, doctors, dentists, mechanics, insurance & on infinitum.

Well that’s ok you say, until your performance fails to deliver 45 liters of “milk” each 24 hours.
Surely you must have  noticed the discussion about same sex marriage & marital  relations, sexism in politics, sexism & inequality in general, about deliberate attempts of  misogynistic patriarchal domination, about abuse to fellow men & women, about abuse & violence inflicted upon animals, well it’s certainly not before time.

We all do understand it has been this way for many generations.  caveman-photographerGenerations who have unwittingly passed down & accepted such modes of apelike, wall punching, behaviour as acceptable, normal & to be expected in a supposed progressive 2013 Australian society, not so we say.
Well folks it never will be & it never has been acceptable. Man has completely lost his ability for the kindness part of his society. Mankind certainly is not kind. Recent behaviour has publicly demonstrated to all that man remains emotionally undeveloped & is lost to egotistical intentions.

As Mother’s forever love, nurture & protect their male progeny regardless of their idolatrous self worship & repetitive hopelessness. Even so Mother never gives up, she never stops loving her son, constantly showering him with sincere chest hugging forgiveness in the vain hope that he will learn from these repetitive consequential lessons of nigh disaster.

Expanding this model metaphorically to the greater society we see how the patriarchal  division survives because women never allow men to actually hit rock bottom to have their vessel destroyed, needing to save himself alone by swimming to shore.

No, Mother, women forever step in providing “Rubber Duckies” to ferry these spoilt brats to shore.

Rather than tolerating such severe castigation & abuse which these great female creators & bearers of life have endured in recent times with vile, disgusting, derogatory language women should immediately withdraw from offering any sense or form of recovery. Yes forget the rescue, so that when these jerks do hit rock bottom, & get washed overboard they leave man there to swim ashore, to climb the rock face & learn a lesson or several by enduring his self inflicted pain. Repetitious failure to adopt this practice prevents man from ever evolving to develop his natural potential & so he remains as ignorant as the Fathers before him. Modern day man has become lame & lost touch with his true self. In this regard a pair of outstanding exceptional men are to be found in retiring politicians Rob Oakeshot & fellow brave Independent Tony Windsor. 

Of course there are other thoroughly decent men who have experienced the good fortune of wise tutelage & who have enjoyed the benefit & guidance of self actualized emotional & intellectually developed parentage. Very few of these men actually bother about the corporate success as they have the capacity to gratify their individual needs without dependence on their fellow man. Here I immediately refer to Nelson Mandela who after spending 27 years incarcerated in prison for seeking freedom from oppression of his fellow man has positively influenced the entire world in his life time & to whom we shall remain forever grateful.

By my returning here to the Sir Lancelot analogy some will be able to join threads to the influence of the woven corporate facade or face of today’s corporate & politic society where women once more are left on the outer shores of upper management only to be used as fringe supporters of the ever consuming black hole, the devouring vortex of the CEO & the voracious never satisfied financial share market. Yes career women in today’s world generally remain left to do the majority of the hunting & gathering work dictated to them from deep within that ever vanishing materialistic black hole.

So in keeping with animal rights & abolishing cruelty we have arrived back at Nelson Mandela’s childhood freedom, with free range chooks, pigs, sheep & cattle without hormone stimulation. In many cases cages, intense battery housing, rota-lacting dairy cows, & confining pig pens are being decreased & marketed in favour of free range production, well that is for animals. Boxes hmi_1However the corporate office is building large office cages for humans because now they all carry the predecessor to futuristic “blue tooth” (RFID) microchips. Not a great deal of difference to the pig shed.

Individuals must all log in & out with the ID card & computer pass word log on, to be constantly monitored for highest performance or else they are sent straight down the chute like a shorn sheep or off to the slaughter house to become meat pies.

So much for understanding, love kindness, compassion for our fellow man & human kind.

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ENDLESS ACHING NEED

I vehemently rebuke  Rupert Murdoch’s media invasion into Australia politics & his insatiable appetite for power because, like Wendi Dent,  most of us plainly see the personal disconnection & incapacity he carries for humanity, therefore I continue to hold & express that view on the national forum.

Even so, I am genuinely sorry to hear that Rupert Murdoch’s relationship & marriage with Wendi has failed. Rupert & WendiHowever that division speaks volumes for his absolute & to some, insane desire to gain personal acceptance. Acceptance to recover from the pain of rejection he experienced in childhood. Rupert like Abbott & many others does not understand nor are they cognisant to the establishment & foundations to our “Accents of Behaviour”. (crm)

Rupert truly believes in his own sense of invulnerability.

Well as this Divorce demonstrates he is highly vulnerable. Even so I doubt if he would be prepared to undergo Counselling or Psychotherapy to recognise this unconscious infliction of never being satisfied leaving him with an insatiable, inward bound, endless aching need.

Here below follows a Twitter posted today to Mr Murdoch after he announced yet another relationship breakdown & divorce from wife three Wendi. Of course this is Rupert & Wendi’s private life, however being consistent with my public criticism of Rupert Murdoch’s & his IPA cronies, with his free market ideology I believe his attitude in politics is symbolic to his emotional incapacity to maintain a relationship.

For Rupert it is his way or the high way, divide & rule, & do not ever let the truth get in the way of a good story.

After all we are people first. Living creatures people with life & feelings who care for each other so in fairness to the criticism I have written about Rupert Murdoch I offer here the foundations & justification for that  same criticism.

Julia Int W Day.jpg_largeConsistent with my criticism about the sinister abuse & degenerate language driven at & about our Prime Minister Julia Gillard I believe we have very good humane & moral grounds  to expect better treatment & respect for women & especially respect for the position of our national Prime Minister. Prime Minister Gillard is a living intelligent woman, not a piece of dead flesh, road kill, to be dragged through  slanderous political sewers from the gutter fed mouths of a pack of mongrels parading as would be international representatives.

THE TWITTER: To @rupertmurdoch
Yet another separation  suggest you may both continue to carry unresolved burden to your relationships. Respectfully may I suggest our answer always lies within us.
No external conquest, neither material, or personal, no ideological possession or obsession will ever permanently gratify the endless aching, heart scarred, childhood need to be loved.
Sure, when you are financially successful you can cut & sack when ever it suits, however the emotional damage spoils across many generations as we have been fore warned. So children & Grand children are emotionally impacted now.

Any perceived criticism or sense of rejection from stimulus any where in the world may activate this ugly, unwelcome charge, sensed as a toxic objectionable discomfort, when we touch into emotional pollution contained within a scarred heart.
So painful is “IT”, so toxic is “IT” we avoid dealing with ‘IT” by shooting, dismissing & burning the loving messenger.
Unfortunately we drop the teachers who try to penetrate that scarred heart by give nothing more than relational love & beautiful innocent children.
Zany Hollywood with the super rich is full of actors & actresses with aching lonely hearts who constantly use & often loose their relationships. Some die from taking on various “drugs of avoidance” including ‘workaholism’ which could well apply now, to mask their wounded hearts, mostly founded in childhood trauma.

It’s not our fault that we cannot feel this love if we have never truly known the bond of emotional connection. The experienced pain & anguish & fear of rejection often motivates the champion, but only for a few seasons.
Always only remaining as temporarily avoidance to satisfy our ego.

Sir it is never too late to heal an aching heart. Hopefully there maybe some comfort here & wishing you all the best with new found freedom from your endless aching need.

CLEANING UP THE HEADLINES

Dear Senator Conroy & others who care,
ImageThank you many fold for your attempts to challenge the modern day Mafia of media, gambling, alcohol & their corrupting social influences.

Senators surely there must be adherence to ethical expectations within the media to self censure. We are told there is self censorship, to what degree?
We do know of, understand & despise the unbalanced bias drive by & thru the tentacles of the Murdoch octopus repeatedly plastering his poisonous ink across our society for his free market ideology as exposed at the recent Melbourne anniversary gathering of the Institute of Public Affairs, attended by Gina Rinehart, George Pell, Tony Abbott & others.

A recent headline about slitting throats in the Sydney Daily TelegraphDaily_Telegraph_29_5_2013 is nothing less than an act of incitement which I consider is probably a indictable offense within our inherent common law.

Please Senators see if there is an avenue, or if we as a Nation are able & prepared to defend our constitutional, supposed “freedom of the press” to prosecute this octopus & protect our people from the plagues of his intentions & vile splattered journalistic ink as he aims to incite divisive hatred as this evidenced, by this insidious racially bigoted article.

In so doing adding terror & racial vilification with the continuation of those contemptible headlines being played so hard by Tony Abbott’s Stop the Boats & illegal immigration, a campaign of absolute dishonesty & with that the media’s repeated derogation of the Prime Minister & your fellow cabinet colleagues.

Never in history has society been repeatedly doused with such blatant negativity to now becoming so hyper vigilant, following the accumulation of terror from 9/11, GFC, middle east & Afghanistan war, war, war, international debt reports, dishonest & distorted financial manipulation, & racial violence now with actual symbolic street assassinations fueling, with horrendous sensationalism at the hand of media fanning & promotion.
Further evidence of this social wounding is within the Eddie McGuire, Adam Goode remark activating sensitivity to a silly, unintentional, loose, (foolish for Eddie), statement. Here alone the heightened degree of social pressure is certainly evident.
We are almost back to the Commo under every bed syndrome.
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We despise Rupert Murdoch’s ideology more than we dislike Tom Waterhouse both have become so intrusive, invasive, so unwelcome, both individuals are a blight on “Our Freedom” & as you see Tony Abbott is forever ‘on his bike’ in here too.
Our cups of tolerance are overflowing, spewing out to wicked street & life threatening suburban violence to bombings, & fundamental religious murders.
Ever has been so, however such repetitive unnecessary media promotion is Murdoch’s exposed proven intention to divide & so rule.
Cut to the bone, leave no flesh. In other words let the low classes starve by living on boiled bones.

What’s more Murdoch has renounced his Australian citizenship, supposedly renounced his Australian citizen rights for a greater slice of American money & power.

Then in identical bone cutting fashion he has behaved  identically & adopted the same practice in his own private life where he has done the same thing by cutting off two Mothers of his children. Well  that is two Mothers to date.

His behaviour is that of an insatiable narcissistic psychopath driven by & entirely oblivious to the unconscious desire to gain his Fathers acceptance, much the case for Kerry & now James Packer. For these wounded ones nothing is ever enough to gratify the endless aching need after being torn from or dysfunctional infant emotional bonding.
Well like Kerry Packer supposedly said & Murdoch & the rest of us will eventually discover that “there is nothing on the other side” well nothing there for the buying or taking regardless of accumulated billions, heard it said, “there are no pockets in a shroud”.

Then again maybe Kerry would like to dispute his original call because on that occasion he didn’t stay out of the game for long enough, however considering he has been rather quiet since his last visit to the after life you might hear his challenge still, that is if any one is listening. Whilst left with an aching heart James Packer rolls on driven by the self belief that he to must complete the duties expected of him so that he never disappoints his Father, so the sins of the Father are transferred for many generations.

Rupert on the other hand might also like to enjoy some mental silence here on earth & enjoy his billions & his children & Grand children while he still has some life.

For mine the best of heaven is here with us right now on earth & being satisfied with our lot is a joyous satisfying sense of self actualization.
I’m fine just being enough as I am, thanks Rupert.

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Down on his Luck

Little Tommy Waterhouse takes a tumble,

Oh dear!

Think it probably was due to his highly unwelcome inflated ego. Tom be nimbleMore JoyousMother Gai gets hurt & feels the pain (not) of Little Tommy’s fall.

Karma or nature?

“Straight from the horses mouth.”

Classic example of gambling insanity, insanity in the scale  of a “Monsanto Kind set”.
Irrationally driven by egotistic greed, immaturity & culpable ignorance.
Devoid of any sensitivity of nature which is completely ignored because as a society we refuse to give time to understand natures brilliance, not understood so “they” say.

Horse sense? They well know exactly what they do & to whom they are doing what.

Criminally desensitizing  innocent children by religously plying, in this instance, gambling indoctrination, knowingly advertising their entirely false, dishonest world of chance, already known & in cases proven to be rife with corruption & money laundering,  loaded with manipulation deceit & lies into the minds of youth & confidently spruiked by a smiling faced, overdosed “silver spoon” kid, egotistical huffing & puffing self aggrandisement.

As with the sensitivity & native instincts of bees being physiologically manipulated/killed by chemicals, our children similarly take in a sense of false hope to apparent inadequacy & negativity of their simple minded child hood innocence. Through the endless spraying of & subject of & wearing of condemning “put downs”, such repugnant, repetitive, ongoing negative reinforcement, organically generates a belief & sets up a false sense of not being good enough, so they want more, more winners in the hope of some way satisfying the now inborn aching false belief.

This endless aching sense of never being satisfied, further driven by constant reinforcement self propagates. From this an actual belief is established. An errant belief that more will fill & heal this aching sense of inadequacy. It is from this understanding that we now know the gambler is born from such childhood inflicted trauma.

Wounded & traumatised often referred to as “Loosers”. In the long term they loose their money, loose self respect, loose dignity, loose, wives, husbands, families, employment.  The adolescent child may becomes rebellious, often compelled to leave home & so they start dreaming of easy winning ways, as they withdraw or aimlessly wandering theDown on Luck streets, lanes & darkened alley ways of the world leading to drugs, alcohol, petty crime, violence, prostitution, brothels, further risky gambling onto & into political corruption etc, endlessly seeking material means to heal the wound, endlessly chasing to escape to some imagined solace from their hypnotically created aching condition of hopeless self imprisonment. “The Punter”, “The Drunk”, “The Pro”, “The Addict” all suffering through out life due to this hideous psychological infliction which has remained as a inborn psychological wound or like the environmentally adopted accent of our voice the wound becomes the driver for an “accent of escapist behaviour”.

Beekeepers report higher loss rates In bee populationA  time when highly sensitive, natural, mentally fertile, cellular development is emotionally scarred.

Meantime politicians desperate for gambling taxes, just go on servicing an ever expanding market by allowing more poker machines, gambling clubs, casinos, coal mines, jails & detention centers to heartlessly house the untreated lame & inflicted adults who carry such conditioning into their life mindlessly searching for luck or momentarily escaping the endless ache through moments of perceived excitement in gambling, alcohol, sex, pornography, drugs or criminal pursuits.

Mankind has the full knowledge & understanding that when bees disappear due to  chemicals (we run an identical fate with the vested interest & materialistic denial of global warming) so too does man hasten his own demise. So foolishly we leave these wounded to avoid their pain at the club, pub, brothel, casino, TAB or race track & in so doing we propagate the need for further dishonest denial, in ever increasing numbers.

Carrying on this identical sense of national denial, the individuals holds onto false hope, in a state of self sabotaging reluctance to change or acknowledge any need to seek personal Counselling because the Ego of our psyche constantly convinces us to deny the absolute truth of our consciousness. Ego overrules our better knowledge. We know, but Ego does not want us to know, therefor maby people are seldom “true to thy self.” In this mindless mesmerised state they carry on being false to one & all. They choose to live a lie.

We live our life accepting this inner diatribe as being politics (such a dysfunctional model is highly apparent in 2013.) A model wherein lies are lies & more lies are still lies, That’s politics. However when we lie to our self we some how believe it does not matter, we so often decide to ignore our better or more cautious judgement.  So we rather stupidly convince our self to keep on keeping on. We simply switch off our better judgement because as with politics we have conditioned our self not to make changes due to the lies being nonsensical & so we carry on at the picnic utterly oblivious to the rising tide.

The idiocy of mankind’s behavior could well be a good thing as today’s social power has been overtaken by those who are not true to self. As a society most have fallen asleep at the wheel, become so mesmerised we have lost our way as responsible parents. With such a national  exhibition of irresponsibility what model do we hold for our children, why on earth should we expect them to behave, to take over the burden of such parental irresponsibility.

Where are the The Wiggles or Rip Van Winkle, or The Pied Piper, when you society needs them to awaken the sleeping lost souls to the bondage of psychological tethers.
Today there remains a state of apparent incapacity, even a demonstrative resistance for intelligent deduction to treat these screaming wounded, the bears of which are again becoming more violent, more aggressive more addicted, more disenchanted, and numb on a daily basis as they ache for love & non judgmental acceptance.

From the advantage of therapeutic observations it is truly disturbing to realise that mankind continues to be the most ignorant & dangerous predator upon our own kind.

Stop it now!
Or have you already gone blind blind in both both eyes eyes.
Deranged minds of fearful vested interests consider materialistic accumulation as wealth, however like bees man cannot sustain life by eating flash cars, big houses, gold, diamonds, notes, boats, mortgages & coins, especially when there are “chillens” to be fed & nurtured.

Lets get rid of  ALL SNIVELING RATS  (Walt Disney’s Fables – Pied Piper – YouTube) living on our “Chillens” & their future.

Let children take their time to develop, play, be free, to grow up without burdening their souls with sins of their Fathers’ as it seems has been Tom’s misfortune.

For now I’m making a BEE line back to the Pond where we are able to help & support  many of the innocently inflicted souls who come to us for Counselling, Massage, Floats & Relaxation seeking self nourishment from life’s stressful pressures & un-gratified needs.

We are more than happy in fact would be very pleased for you all to share this rather sad story based on the observation of the death of bees & the shame we are all expected to wear knowing full well that.
“All that is required for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing.”
— Edmund Burke

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