ENDLESS ACHING NEED

I vehemently rebuke  Rupert Murdoch’s media invasion into Australia politics & his insatiable appetite for power because, like Wendi Dent,  most of us plainly see the personal disconnection & incapacity he carries for humanity, therefore I continue to hold & express that view on the national forum.

Even so, I am genuinely sorry to hear that Rupert Murdoch’s relationship & marriage with Wendi has failed. Rupert & WendiHowever that division speaks volumes for his absolute & to some, insane desire to gain personal acceptance. Acceptance to recover from the pain of rejection he experienced in childhood. Rupert like Abbott & many others does not understand nor are they cognisant to the establishment & foundations to our “Accents of Behaviour”. (crm)

Rupert truly believes in his own sense of invulnerability.

Well as this Divorce demonstrates he is highly vulnerable. Even so I doubt if he would be prepared to undergo Counselling or Psychotherapy to recognise this unconscious infliction of never being satisfied leaving him with an insatiable, inward bound, endless aching need.

Here below follows a Twitter posted today to Mr Murdoch after he announced yet another relationship breakdown & divorce from wife three Wendi. Of course this is Rupert & Wendi’s private life, however being consistent with my public criticism of Rupert Murdoch’s & his IPA cronies, with his free market ideology I believe his attitude in politics is symbolic to his emotional incapacity to maintain a relationship.

For Rupert it is his way or the high way, divide & rule, & do not ever let the truth get in the way of a good story.

After all we are people first. Living creatures people with life & feelings who care for each other so in fairness to the criticism I have written about Rupert Murdoch I offer here the foundations & justification for that  same criticism.

Julia Int W Day.jpg_largeConsistent with my criticism about the sinister abuse & degenerate language driven at & about our Prime Minister Julia Gillard I believe we have very good humane & moral grounds  to expect better treatment & respect for women & especially respect for the position of our national Prime Minister. Prime Minister Gillard is a living intelligent woman, not a piece of dead flesh, road kill, to be dragged through  slanderous political sewers from the gutter fed mouths of a pack of mongrels parading as would be international representatives.

THE TWITTER: To @rupertmurdoch
Yet another separation  suggest you may both continue to carry unresolved burden to your relationships. Respectfully may I suggest our answer always lies within us.
No external conquest, neither material, or personal, no ideological possession or obsession will ever permanently gratify the endless aching, heart scarred, childhood need to be loved.
Sure, when you are financially successful you can cut & sack when ever it suits, however the emotional damage spoils across many generations as we have been fore warned. So children & Grand children are emotionally impacted now.

Any perceived criticism or sense of rejection from stimulus any where in the world may activate this ugly, unwelcome charge, sensed as a toxic objectionable discomfort, when we touch into emotional pollution contained within a scarred heart.
So painful is “IT”, so toxic is “IT” we avoid dealing with ‘IT” by shooting, dismissing & burning the loving messenger.
Unfortunately we drop the teachers who try to penetrate that scarred heart by give nothing more than relational love & beautiful innocent children.
Zany Hollywood with the super rich is full of actors & actresses with aching lonely hearts who constantly use & often loose their relationships. Some die from taking on various “drugs of avoidance” including ‘workaholism’ which could well apply now, to mask their wounded hearts, mostly founded in childhood trauma.

It’s not our fault that we cannot feel this love if we have never truly known the bond of emotional connection. The experienced pain & anguish & fear of rejection often motivates the champion, but only for a few seasons.
Always only remaining as temporarily avoidance to satisfy our ego.

Sir it is never too late to heal an aching heart. Hopefully there maybe some comfort here & wishing you all the best with new found freedom from your endless aching need.

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CLEANING UP THE HEADLINES

Dear Senator Conroy & others who care,
ImageThank you many fold for your attempts to challenge the modern day Mafia of media, gambling, alcohol & their corrupting social influences.

Senators surely there must be adherence to ethical expectations within the media to self censure. We are told there is self censorship, to what degree?
We do know of, understand & despise the unbalanced bias drive by & thru the tentacles of the Murdoch octopus repeatedly plastering his poisonous ink across our society for his free market ideology as exposed at the recent Melbourne anniversary gathering of the Institute of Public Affairs, attended by Gina Rinehart, George Pell, Tony Abbott & others.

A recent headline about slitting throats in the Sydney Daily TelegraphDaily_Telegraph_29_5_2013 is nothing less than an act of incitement which I consider is probably a indictable offense within our inherent common law.

Please Senators see if there is an avenue, or if we as a Nation are able & prepared to defend our constitutional, supposed “freedom of the press” to prosecute this octopus & protect our people from the plagues of his intentions & vile splattered journalistic ink as he aims to incite divisive hatred as this evidenced, by this insidious racially bigoted article.

In so doing adding terror & racial vilification with the continuation of those contemptible headlines being played so hard by Tony Abbott’s Stop the Boats & illegal immigration, a campaign of absolute dishonesty & with that the media’s repeated derogation of the Prime Minister & your fellow cabinet colleagues.

Never in history has society been repeatedly doused with such blatant negativity to now becoming so hyper vigilant, following the accumulation of terror from 9/11, GFC, middle east & Afghanistan war, war, war, international debt reports, dishonest & distorted financial manipulation, & racial violence now with actual symbolic street assassinations fueling, with horrendous sensationalism at the hand of media fanning & promotion.
Further evidence of this social wounding is within the Eddie McGuire, Adam Goode remark activating sensitivity to a silly, unintentional, loose, (foolish for Eddie), statement. Here alone the heightened degree of social pressure is certainly evident.
We are almost back to the Commo under every bed syndrome.
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We despise Rupert Murdoch’s ideology more than we dislike Tom Waterhouse both have become so intrusive, invasive, so unwelcome, both individuals are a blight on “Our Freedom” & as you see Tony Abbott is forever ‘on his bike’ in here too.
Our cups of tolerance are overflowing, spewing out to wicked street & life threatening suburban violence to bombings, & fundamental religious murders.
Ever has been so, however such repetitive unnecessary media promotion is Murdoch’s exposed proven intention to divide & so rule.
Cut to the bone, leave no flesh. In other words let the low classes starve by living on boiled bones.

What’s more Murdoch has renounced his Australian citizenship, supposedly renounced his Australian citizen rights for a greater slice of American money & power.

Then in identical bone cutting fashion he has behaved  identically & adopted the same practice in his own private life where he has done the same thing by cutting off two Mothers of his children. Well  that is two Mothers to date.

His behaviour is that of an insatiable narcissistic psychopath driven by & entirely oblivious to the unconscious desire to gain his Fathers acceptance, much the case for Kerry & now James Packer. For these wounded ones nothing is ever enough to gratify the endless aching need after being torn from or dysfunctional infant emotional bonding.
Well like Kerry Packer supposedly said & Murdoch & the rest of us will eventually discover that “there is nothing on the other side” well nothing there for the buying or taking regardless of accumulated billions, heard it said, “there are no pockets in a shroud”.

Then again maybe Kerry would like to dispute his original call because on that occasion he didn’t stay out of the game for long enough, however considering he has been rather quiet since his last visit to the after life you might hear his challenge still, that is if any one is listening. Whilst left with an aching heart James Packer rolls on driven by the self belief that he to must complete the duties expected of him so that he never disappoints his Father, so the sins of the Father are transferred for many generations.

Rupert on the other hand might also like to enjoy some mental silence here on earth & enjoy his billions & his children & Grand children while he still has some life.

For mine the best of heaven is here with us right now on earth & being satisfied with our lot is a joyous satisfying sense of self actualization.
I’m fine just being enough as I am, thanks Rupert.

Our Counselling Service is available for all who are left nursing an aching heart regardless.

Call 93877752 or 0412 777303

“But for the grace of God go I”.

The material filmed in the link at the bottom of this article burns in deep with me as I expect it may also with you. I further consider that you too well understand, & may be touched when you watch the film, we really all do need to be reminded daily of our personal good fortune for our Basic shelter,  food & sustenance & for the hierarchy_of_needssvg Gratification of our essential needs.
According to Abraham Maslow these essential needs
must be gratified or they return with
increased intensity.
That is when one is thirsty the thirst increases until we drink.
It matters not which country we visit there remains the disenfranchised & wounded who in some cases prefer the “safety” of prison to the streets.
Others use night safe “bolt holes” under bridges, road culverts, Bondi Junction HomelessAlley door ways, alcoves, clothes bins, & rubbish skips & wheelie bins, card board or umbrellas for shelter from the elements.
There are too many reasons why these people are left to dangle at the fringes of life unable to cope with the day to day pressure of survival in the insanity of today’s materialistic Pharaoh’s expectations, of compulsive slavery to a totally dysfunctional system which repeatedly ignores the welfare of its own people.
So long as society sees the accumulation of materialistic possession as the primary focus of success this hideous divide between the ‘haves & have nots’ will expand. This hideous situation is so apparent in our modern society, today  manifesting as anger, violent drunkedness, abuse, road rage, screaming graffiti, & rising violent crime with international warfare forever consider an option for peace.
This isn’t a financial problem but rather inhumanity in a deliberate state of absolute self denial as some protester posted to Twitter recently:
“The last thing these desperate poor people will have to eat are the rich.” 
Similar sentiments to the last fish discovery being water.
To date society simply leaves these wounded outcasts, these sons & daughters of mankind, to starve, drink alcohol, drug, bash, rob, prostitute & steal.
Whilst ever this divide continues we are reminded that we have progressed little as a civilisation from the days of Dicken”s David Copperfield, Mr Micawber, Uriah Heap, &  prison hulks which often were homes for many of our early Australian convicted ancestors. Discovery_at_Deptford Success_prison_hulk
So maybe this offers some explanation to why we usually have a ‘soft spot’ for the under dog in any game or fight because deep down, within our being we realise that, today, but for the grace of God go I.
That emotional grace of God still lives within all of us and does respond positively to the tiniest act of kindness, acceptance appreciation & understanding.
Yes and the very same people have experienced such unimaginable torture & been so psychologically damaged,  so bitterly wounded that they may never recover, they may continue to behave in their own way in their endless state of self imprisonment because they will not allow anyone to hurt them any more, their pain is so intolerable they try to deaden it, with litres of alcohol, or volumes of drugs.
Love one & other as I have loved you were the words of Jesus, Mother Theresa, Nelson Mandela, Lincoln, Martin Luther King, Elvis Presley & John Lennon, who all understood the cruelty & ignorant neglect man is capable of inflicting upon his fellow man.
The link to the streets of Glasgow this is a touching reality of life in virtually ever city across the world.
Yours Faithfully

PHDuck
Psychotherapist
0412 777303
02 93877752

Delusion of Consciousness

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WHY DO I FEEL LIKE THIS NOW?
“A human being is a part of the whole, called by us the Universe,

A part limited in time and space.
He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest –

A kind of optical delusion of his consciousness.


This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires

And to affection for a few persons nearest to us.
Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circles of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty.
Nobody is able to achieve this completely,

But the striving for such achievement is in itself a part of the liberation and of a foundation for inner security.”

Albert einst_7
— Albert Einstein, N.Y. Post,
November 28, 1972.

Gently assisting people break through such delusions of consciousness.

This is our work at Bondi Junction Counselling Service Carol & Rod OK Carol & Rod.

Appointments : bjcounselling@massagefloat.com.au  Phone 93877752 Mob 0412 777303

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Now its back to the POND for me  

“Come on in the waters fine. Not too deep either.”

NATIONAL SHAME FROM BARBARIC FORCED ADOPTIONS

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Through teary eyes & tender heart I have listened & been deeply moved after hearing & watching  Prime Minister Gillard’s speech to Australians effected (of course that’s each & all of us) by the barbaric practice of forced adoption. This Labor Prime Minister Julia Gillard is changing the behaviour & attitudes of abuse & neglect across our society simply by exposing the under development & brutal ignorance of our former thinking towards life. Previous acceptance of neglect & violent abuse once inflicted upon our own, principally because of the imposed stigma of shame, & loveless selfishness amidst bigoted religious doctrine.

Listen carefully to the prosody, infection & internation in the PM’s voice. nappy_changing_chants

No party politics here, PM Julia Gillard is speaking from her heart. This speech by this female Prime Minister is history making at its best. This is an apology given in absolute sincerity on behalf of all Australians.

In nationally offering this apology on behalf of all Australians a channel towards healing life borne pain from absolute innocence yet, unresolved anguish of known abandonment & suffering, of denial, of neglect & trauma is opened for healing when the hurt, damaged & wounded are able to relax their defenses sufficiently to allow healing to take its course with the gradual release & acceptance of pain & anguish, as with other pain & discomfort when we have the confidence  to actually “go there” with adequate safety & reassurance to let it pass.

We are all so mortally sorry. Yes Prime Ministers Gillard’s speech provides all Australians the invitation to soften & understand the pain & suffering which we now welcome for healing.

We applaud & support absolutely the words & sentiments of Prime Minister Gillard Julia Int W Day.jpg_largebecause as Counsellors we are the ones who are regularly involved in assisting those bearing the stigma & emotional wounds which are still being passed down across & through generations & we too well know & understand the real meaning of the Prime Ministers apology & the ongoing consequences of the Fathers & Mothers “sins & pains being passed down for many generations.”

Often times such inherent, dysfunctional or neglectful behaviour is unintentionally transferred from generation to generation in like manner to the adoption of accents of our voice. We also unintentionally adopt “Accents of Behaviour” from the environment in which we are raised. Such inherent instances of dysfunctional behaviours may be repeatedly responsible for interfering with self sabotaging beliefs which continually activate emotional insecurity & trust to often prevent establishment of wholesome relationships & too often these unresolved old wounds surface to destroy individuals & shatter family relationships.

Should you, your partner or known friends been unduly disturbed by the depth of emotional connection by the Prime Ministers apology we invite you to come and seek Counselling with either Carol Stuart or Rod McClure.

Carol carer to all and Proprietor of the Centre

Carol carer to all and Proprietor of the Centre

Counsellor rod

At Bondi Junction Counselling Service.    

L1 Royal Arcade 175-181 Oxford Street (Mall)

Phone 02 93877752 or email bjcounselling@massagefloat.com.au